I am a blind man who often feels lonely and longs for friendship. Many people ask how I read messages, so I want to share my method. I use screen readers that convert messages to speech, and I reply using the same technology. Please don't ask if I’ve seen your pictures, as I can't see them. I wear a cochlear implant in my left ear and a hearing aid in my right, so I can speak normally and hear face-to-face.
My husband is in a nursing home due to advanced Alzheimer's. He's there permanently and will never come home. I cared for him at home for 7 years before it became overwhelming, after which, with support from both families and social services, Charlie was placed into care. I still feel guilty about this. I share my situation because I often get questions about it. Yes, I am blind, but please don’t let that hold you back from approaching me. I am human, with needs and feelings. I'm skilled with my hands, so don’t hesitate to reach out—you might be surprised how well I manage.
I am very honest, very clean, and extremely discreet.
I define my disability; it does not define me. Don’t underestimate my abilities. And again, please don't ask if I've seen pictures, as I cannot see them.
Lastly, if I message you, it's courteous to reply—even just with 'no thank you.” Manners cost nothing.
I also volunteer locally, supporting those facing isolation, loneliness, or just wanting to chat and make new friends. So, guys, you’re never truly alone.
