FabGuys.com: darnoq (48) , Man in london, Greater London, UK

I'd really prefer it if you weren't wanking when you talk to me for the first time. A decent conversation is more likely to get my attention than the urgency of "meet me now" one liners, because you're hnh and using one hand to type! ;-)

Blow and go situations can be fun if you want to get sucked, but mostly looking for an older mentor type, someone to take me on an exploratory trip of kink. A selfish lover perhaps, someone for me to please. I'm inexperienced, tend towards the submissive, but an intellectual connection might be nice. It would be cool to enjoy conversation over coffee or drinks as well as get on my knees etc.

I'm in no hurry, unlikely to do last minute meets. Prefer not to do one offs, but not after a relationship either. Mostly bottom. Kink friendly. Not a sissy or a weak person (nothing wrong with being a sissy, just not for me)

Kissing unlikely to happen straight away, not ruling it out tho, much more likely when I know you better... (edit) a further word on this. Kissing can be erotic if done with subtlety and finesse, but that level of intimacy comes with affection, in my world, and some hook ups are not affectionate, they're just a fuck or suck. I don't kiss strangers.

I like books, records and clothes. Vintage shopping, traditional boozers and old man's pubs. I like social history and social justice. Leftie, liberal, armchair intellectual.

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