40 and finally ready to stop pretending I’m not curious. Life’s been safe, steady, and predictable — but somewhere along the way, I started wondering what else is out there, what I’ve been missing, and who might make me feel truly alive again.
I’m a naturally shy guy, quiet at first, but there’s a lot more beneath the surface once you get past the guard. I like good conversation, dry humour, and that unspoken tension when you just click with someone. I’ve spent years taking care of everything and everyone else — now I’m looking for something that’s just for me.
I’m working on myself, trying to feel fitter, more confident, more me again. My job keeps me busy, so I’m not glued to my phone, but if we connect, I’ll always make time and do my best to reply. I’m also honest enough to admit I can be a bit picky — I read people fast, and I’m drawn to calm, confident men who know who they are and don’t need to prove it.
Discretion matters — I respect boundaries and expect the same. I’m not here for drama or endless chats that go nowhere. I’m here for something that feels real: chemistry, laughter, maybe a bit of mischief, and that thrill you can’t fake when two people genuinely get each other.
If you’re easygoing, mature, and know how to hold a decent conversation, you’ll have my attention. Surprise me, make me smile, and see where it goes from there
