FabGuys.com: DAVINIA-FEMBODY (64) , TV/TS in ashington, North East, UK

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A few thoughts on "timewasters"

Lots of us have had the experience of setting up a meet only for the other guy not to show up. It's irritating, but I think it's understandable.

Fabguys is like a huge interactive sex game.

There are thousands of players to look at and some will even talk to you, and you can fantasise about meeting them and having sex. You can find players who will just about match any fantasy you've ever had, however filthy.

So you start chatting, swapping pictures and porn films start playing in your head. It's all a huge turn on, and a wankers fantasy, until you send that fateful message agreeing to meet.

Suddenly it's real. You're going to meet a real live person.

So then you have to agree a time and a place and that can be a chore. And you start worrying about whether you'll like them, and even if they'll be some kind of psycho.

If you're going to invite them to your home you have to think about cleaning the place up, and cleaning yourself up too.

If you're just playing online you can sit at home cock in hand in your grubby old clothes and imagine your ideal meet where everything matches your fantasy. But a real person has their own agenda too and reality and fantasy are very different things.

Ten to one they've not got much time as they fit you into their ordinary life - with the ever-present need to keep their dirty needs a secret, so what you imagined as a relaxed meet with time to indulge your desires turns into a frantic, if pleasurable, few minutes.

You worry that your neighbours will guess what you're up too, that your wife, your family might find out and you feel some guilt and shame perhaps.

So you agree to meet - then you get scared and go offline or shut down your account or even block the other guy. Or you agree to meet tomorrow, have a fabulous wank tonight and just don't feel like it the next morning.

So if you set up a meet and it's a no-show it's irritating, especially if you've taken time to shower, tidy up, find condoms etc or even dress up, but it's understandable too.

I think what I'm saying is if you agree to meet and then get cold feet, do at least send a message to the other guy and apologise. If he gets nasty in return you can always block him later.

Some meets can be a disappointment, but some can be absolutely amazing. You have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince.........................

how did I end up on here you may wonder

well I was married 20yrs

she thought the grass was greener traded me in for a younger model

they lasted a year and a half together

so I was looking for a fem on a similar site

yes I actually met a few

then one day this guy popped up saying any luck mate I said yes cant complain

he said been on here 6 months not a thing not even reply's

then he said do I fancy any guy on guy fun

at that point I had never even gave it a thought

that was feb 2010

always been curious and now being a free agent I thought nows my chance as its only a matter of time before I get snapped up by a nice fem

we met it was good fun both virgins

I enjoyed it more than I thought I would

we had a number of meets until I met my current mrs on the same site

I told him I had met her and had to put the fun we had to the back burner

me and the mrs hit it off straight away

got married a year latter in may 2011

one evening sitting in with a few drinks it turned into confession time she told me previous to her marrage to first hubbie she was a lesbian having a long term relationship

so she turned to me and said what about you

well the beer was talking and I told her of the guy I had met just prior to meeting her

she never batted an eyelid

then she said do you miss it am I really gay

I said no im totally devoted to you I would never leave you for a man

then I said we should start a bi couples profile

pushing my luck saying that but no she was all for it

we had some wonderful meets many of which are still in touch now

then in april 2 yrs ago we went to blackpool to see the funny girls she loved them so much

then sitting watching them she turned around to me and said I would make a nice cd I have the body for it

I laughed and nearly chocked on my drink

but she was serious

she said I am going to buy you some fem attire and for me to dress for her

so after getting all the necessary stuff we rushed home she helped me into the dress etc

it is featured on my last few pics

she said look in the mirror after she had applied all of the make up etc

it was not a full length mirror so I said I cant see

get the camera she said

stand properly shut your legs ffs etc pose like a girl well I put them on pc

my jaw dropped I fancied my self lol when I saw them

she grabbed me dressed pulling me upstairs to bed

god she was a nympho as it was but god did we fuck she was like possessed

then I said well we have our profile on *** shall I make one on fabguys see what others think

well the rest is history as they say

we had the two profiles running together

then tragedy struck she had a major stroke on sep 4th last year bringing about the end of all of her sexual activity

so I thought goodbye davinia

but when she got out of hospital me spending every day there training up to be a carer for her

she said am I not having any meets I was shocked at that comment

she said look at it as a respite from the care you provide for me but don't ask will she watch as that is a definite no no

she is a star one in a million

well I hope you read and enjoyed my story

if you respond with yes I did then I know

thanks

sadly my wife died recently so be kind to me in your msgs

sadly my wife died december 2015 ..................................................

i have since acquired a g/f she knows i do this she tolerates it because i was doing it before we met but she prefers i meet guys in her abcence......

i will dress for guys cds fems and couples but will not dress if your a guy just wanting a quick bj sorry it takes me time to look the part can at times do short notice meets if im free at the time yous contact

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reguards davinia

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