Genuine, very open minded and kinky, sane dom top.
Balanced with mild to filthy, sleaze n wild n prvy depending on the vibe. Nothing shocks me, minus very very few things.
Looking for genuine likeminded guys very similar to me and mates, regular preferred. Don’t mind hot and long hookups and seshs, but connection and consistency always take priority, as well as sobriety and self care.
Open to long term if the chemistry is right. Some kind of spark is a must, and all for intimacy. Take it from a divorced young adult…but never say never lol, although I’ve yet to find a submissive gent with a balance of genuine and creatively filthy ;)
On PrEP and DoxyPEP, HIV negative as of March 2026.
ADHD and neurodivergent, so I am direct, open and high energy at times. If that is not your thing, no hard feelings. If I haven’t been online in a while; I’m offline, and I’ll get back to you.
Cannot accommodate but can travel to get to you where possible.
Not so innocent, message to find out more.
Prefer masculine straight acting men. No offence to anyone who has feminine traits, it’s just not my thing and can instantly turn me off if you’re after fun. And men who aren’t all talk and will make the effort or be honest about what they want, I’m not looking for endless chatter!
Final word, I won’t bottom, I’m not submissive, so if you want an instant block, feel free to say if said with no care and you’ll know where it’ll end. I get it’s a fantasy, and I’m with you there, but it’s not gonna happen with me.