Primarily looking for kinky fun, mainly bondage but open to a lot of other stuff, including things I haven't tried before, only a few definite "no"s. I'm normally sub, definitely more suited for that role; I can occasionally dom but mostly just for younger guys, plus I have to be in the right mood and I'm definitely on the "soft" side. Can also meet without kink if we click well enough and you're not into it.
More of a side (wanking, oral). Anal is still maybe possible, but I generally struggle with it so easier not to. If it does happen, only ever successfully bottomed.
I can be a bit shy/anxious at first, probably better to be direct than expect me to pick up any subtle implications. Will share face pic before meeting up. FWB welcome if we get along, I'm very much a nerd in "normal" life.
I can occasionally accom, but normally can't.