So, have you a wild, maybe weird, fantasy that you want to try/explore? Bondage, restraint, flagellation, cuckolding, outdoor etc.?
Me? I'm a firm dom daddy, hairy and broad shoulder rugby type with big hands and arms and yeah I love kinky and up for nearly anything (that's why I have just jumped on board 'Fabguys') except , thats a definate no thanks!!
For sure I'm a dom top 'sir or daddy' looking for younger than me guys to experience whatever takes your fancy. Not a bottom, defo a top, that's for sure but happy sucking a cock,rimming,wanking.
If you just want to message and ask cool, go for it and if a meet is arranged I don't mess about and bottle out.