Looking for good, easy going no strings fun with guys. In an open relationship, looking for MM and oral/anal fun. I love saunas also and regularly go to them all over the UK, would be great to meet guys at them! I also have an underwear fetish and an extensive collection. Keen on meeting older guys, especially with grey hair! Please note that I don’t give or receive anal without a condom, non-negotiable, if you try without or ask I will get dressed and leave. Also, I will only meet out gay men, I’m sorry but the idea of being complicit in cheating and secrecy does not float my boat! I am not here to take virginities, indulge in a curiosity or coach people through coming out either, I’m here for a bit of sex and fun and maybe a good chin wag along the way. Finally, yes I am a bottom, but that does not mean I am into being hurt physically, the number of guys who just grab or smack without a thought amazes me. I am sorry to be blunt, but experience tells me I need to be.