It is a know fact that on all gay sites there are timewasters, it is a product of the product! So I ask those who contact me to first consider whether they will meet if we get to that point in our discussion and to be honest about it. To meet or not to meet, not a difficult question, please don't pretend!
To the gen guys on here, I am into a range of"activities" from a bit of vanilla thru to more adventurous and kinky fun. Can accom or travel. If hosting, I have some equipment to "help things along".