Professional, quite fit, discreet (so if you're married I can guarantee safe), not camp, up for NSA only. If you arrange to meet but don't show you'll be blocked. I DON'T do endless messaging, even with family; if you want that then join a book club.
Am quite good with new people who haven't tried anything gay before; no expectations, no pressure.
If you actually want to communicate then best make sure you haven't blocked me; I block anyone who limits their age range - expand it and I'll unblock, lol.