I can best describe myself as a reluctant top. If your greatest pleasure is to be fucked long and hard you'll be disappointed because that's not what I am looking for. I want to meet all of you, not just your cock or your arse. So I like to take time to chat, get naked, hot and intimate with lots of kissing and snogging, nipple play, sucking, rimming and helping each other explore what gives pleasure. If you want us to go further I can only be top but I am equally happy without anal sex. And I don't do rubbers, they cause instant deflation.And you can catch STI's just as easy from oral. So safe sex to me means vaccinations,Doxy/PrEP, regular tests and being careful who I meet with. I am not looking for a relationship but also not for lots of new notches on the bedpost. I would love to meet a fb/fwb as sex gets better as you get to know eachother and a regular meet to me is more satisfactory than a one off. I can accommodate with some notice. I am most attracted to masculine hairy older men but ultimately personality matters more to me than outer appearance. STI and HIV neg. Last tested SH24: 30 January,all clear.
