I can best describe myself as a reluctant top. If your greatest pleasure is to get fucked long and hard you'll be disappointed because that's not what I am looking for. I want to meet all of you, not just your cock or your arse. And I like intimacy so I take time for chat,frottage, getting naked, close and hot and with lots of cuddles,kissing and snogging, nipple play, sucking, rimming, fingering, edging and helping each other explore what gives pleasure. If you want us to go further I can only be top but I am also just as happy without anal. And I don't do rubbers, they cause instant deflation.And you can catch STI's just as easy from oral. So safe sex to me means being vaccinated against M pox, Hep A+B and Men B, taking event based doxy/PrEP, regular testing and being careful who I meet with. I am not looking for a relationship but also not for lots of new notches on the bedpost. I prefer meeting regular fuck buddies as sex gets better when you get to know eachother and regular meets are much more satisfactory than one off encounters. I can accommodate with some notice. I am most attracted to masculine hairy older guys but ultimately personality and connection matter more to me than outer appearance. But women's clothes are a complete turnoff. Last tested on 8 September 26,STI and HIV neg. Mutual verification on request, I prefer my encounters to remain discreet and private. Because of the new terms and conditions relating to [hidden] I disagree with the commercial use of my personal Data (text, images and personal data according to BDSG)The copyright of my pictures and texts rests solely with me.The commercial use requires my written permission.