I can best describe myself as a reluctant top. If your greatest pleasure is to be fucked long and hard you'll be disappointed because that's not what I like doing.I want to meet you, not just your cock or your arse. So I like to take time to chat, get naked, hot and intimate with lots of kissing and snogging,nipple play, sucking, rimming and helping each other explore what gives pleasure. If you want us to go further I can only do top but I am also happy without anal. And I don't do rubbers, they cause instant deflation.You can catch STI's just as easy from oral. So safe sex to me means vaccinations, prep, regular tests and being careful who I meet with. I am not looking for a relationship but also not for lots of new notches on the bedpost. I would love to meet a fb/fwb as sex gets better as you get to know eachother and a regular meet to me is more satisfactory than a one off. I am mostly working from home and am in an open relationship but we spare eachother the details so if i suddenly disappear from this app and only appear intermittently please don't think I am not interested or ignoring you,it is because work or company doesn't allow me to be on the phone a lot. STI and HIV neg. Last tested 3 Sept ,all clear
