Kissing essential! I prefer quality meets rather than quantity. I just enjoy good connected sex and enjoying each other’s bodies.
I’m neg and on prep so my preference is BB. That’s my version of safe which has worked for me for years. I get tested for all STIs very regularly to get Prep. I’m therefore probably more aware of my health status than those that don’t take Prep and eulogise being “safe” and don’t need a lecture thanks.
Sexually, cross dressing doesn’t do it for me.