FabGuys.com: nawtymassuase (41) , Man in Rotherham, East Midlands, UK

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Not for skim-readers.

IMPORTANT — READ THIS FIRST

Read profiles before messaging. Especially before sending explicit photos.

If you’re not my type and I reply without hyping your pics, don’t take it personally. Attraction is selective. Standards matter.

I’m a top — and I don’t want unsolicited explicit close-ups in my inbox, especially graphic shots.

If I haven’t asked, don’t send.

Self-awareness is attractive. Oversharing isn’t.

Respect my boundaries and you’ll get my attention.

Ignore them and you won’t.

WELCOME

Everything I offer is complimentary.

No fees.

No pressure.

No expectations.

This is about chemistry, presence, and genuine desire — not transactions, not awkwardness, and never obligation.

If we meet, it’s because we both feel that natural pull, that quiet curiosity, and the desire to explore it without pressure or performance.

WHO I AM

I’m Ste.

Grounded. Masculine. Calm on the surface — confident underneath.

Former rugby build — solid, strong, and very comfortable in my physical presence. I carry myself with quiet authority, steady energy, and the kind of confidence that doesn’t need noise to be felt.

I don’t chase.

I don’t compete.

I don’t need to prove anything.

I’m comfortable in my skin, comfortable in silence, and comfortable taking the lead when the moment calls for it.

If I’m giving you my time, it’s deliberate — because I want to, not because I’m bored or looking for validation.

CAREER & BACKGROUND — BRAINS WITH BRAWN

I’ve spent my life in high-pressure roles — police, military medical, and nursing.

That background shapes how I move through the world and how I am with people:

Calm when others rush

Observant when others miss things

In control without needing attention

Confident without needing to dominate the room

I understand bodies properly.

I read people quickly.

I know when to be gentle — and when to take charge with quiet confidence.

WHAT TIME WITH ME FEELS LIKE

Private. Relaxed. No chaos.

Time with me is unhurried, grounded, and guided with quiet confidence. It’s about switching off from the outside world and being fully present in the moment, without noise, pressure, or expectation.

Some sessions stay purely therapeutic.

Some build a deeper charge.

Nothing is rushed. Nothing is awkward.

Everything builds naturally at the right pace.

I let the tension rise properly before moving further.

The energy deepens, the connection settles, and I guide where it goes.

Things unfold smoothly — and I take the lead when the moment’s right.

There’s no need to impress, overthink, or try too hard.

Just show up clean, respectful, and comfortable in your own skin — the rest happens naturally.

WHO I CONNECT WITH

I’m selective — and that’s part of the appeal.

I’m drawn to:

• athletic or muscular builds

• solid, well-proportioned men

• masculine energy

• men who are comfortable in their bodies

• men who can relax and let go of overthinking

I’m primarily a top, but with the right man — the right chemistry, the right energy, and real physical attraction — I’m open to more.

That level of access is earned, not assumed.

I’m selective about who I share that side with. Fit, confident, well-built men who carry themselves properly and understand mutual respect will always stand out.

Connection and comfort come first — not just anyone gets that invitation.

Attraction is personal.

Chemistry can’t be negotiated — you either feel it, or you don’t.

ENERGY & CHEMISTRY

I don’t rush.

I build.

I pay attention before I touch.

I read reactions before I move further.

I let anticipation do its job.

There’s patience first…

Then pressure.

Then presence.

Calm control that shifts into confident intensity when the moment calls for it. A steady, grounded energy that builds heat without noise, without awkwardness, and without trying too hard.

If you like being with a man who knows exactly what he’s doing — and lets you feel it rather than talk about it — we’ll get along very well.

LIFE OUTSIDE THE ROOM

Music: Whitney, Tina Turner, Cher — big voices, big emotion.

Erasure, Madonna, Rihanna — confidence and energy.

90s uplift like Sash!, Robert Miles, DJ Quicksilver.

Films: Titanic, Mamma Mia, Grease — yes, I own it.

Plus atmospheric sci-fi like X-Men, Avatar, Stranger Things.

I cook properly too — Indian, Thai, Mexican, Italian, Chinese, all from scratch. Food is one of my love languages, and I take the same care there as I do everywhere else.

I can make professional wedding cakes…

but Yorkshire puddings still defeat me every single time.

ASTRO NOTE

Aries — grounded fire.

Strong presence. Warm energy. Steady confidence. I bring heat, but it’s controlled, intentional, and never chaotic.

A NOTE ON REPLIES

I don’t do one-word messages.

I don’t entertain time-wasters.

And I don’t reward disrespect.

If I’m replying, it’s because I’m genuinely interested and feel a reason to continue the conversation.

Bring good energy.

Bring manners.

Bring confidence.

That’s all it takes to get my attention.

Looking For

Meeting

Interests