Been here before, left due to finding it difficult to meet due to family and work life, so I didn't want to be classed as a time waster by not being able to meet or having to cancel my plans so was easier to leave .....even though when I have rejoined there is quite a few on here that are. If I wink it means I am just breaking the ice between us as there was something in your profile that appealled to me, if you send a message I will reply as I reply to all messages even if it is a no thank you,