hi my name is jo i am a married man and have been liveing with the secret of been gay all my life its a long story, my wife is disabeld after an accsedent, whom i have to look after so you can see my dilemma i do care for her very much so you can see how i need discretion,i do have my needs, so would like to meeet someone for nsf or a reg meet may be more who knows.