Vers n-b geek looking for one or more regular fwbs. Zero interest in darkroom/anon situations; I like to see what and who I'm doing. I can accom and travel with enough notice. "Right now" is not an option, and I don't drive.
I don't have a fixed type. All body shapes and sizes are welcome, hairy or smooth. Cis and trans men, n-b and other gender non-conforming folk are all welcome. Tories, terfs, racists and other bigots can jog on.
As for me, I'm not in shape, so don't expect that, and my long hair and RP accent are likely too effeminate for those who are masc only. I am not "TV/TS" and I have no interest in wearing lingerie for anyone.
I prefer to hook up with guys who are out, ethically non-monogamous, etc. That said, I'll occasionally hook up with guys who are on the downlow, provided you're not opposed to sharing a face pic. I don't have to see one straightaway, if you can at least hold a conversation, but I will need to see one before meeting.
"No pic, no chat" - unless you're charming as hell, you're not going to be the exception. If you're not going to share a face pic upfront, you're going to have to catch my eye with some other parts of your anatomy - chest and cock, or your arse viewed from behind with you on all fours. Fuzzy pics of flaccid dicks don't impress me much.
Kinks I enjoy but don't require to have a good time: piss, leather, spanking, (top only) and more. I like to experiment, but I do have some limits (hard pain and the usual taboos).
Please don't message me out the blue saying something like "nice titties", because it's (a) incredibly tedious, and (b) makes my dick wilt faster than steamed spinach.
