Enjoyment is the key, for both, I will try to get the profile right, I am still very inexperienced, looking for patience . but a fast learner. :)
How difficult can it be for 2 like minded horny people, to get together, sensually slowly undress each other, and to relax closely into each others arms, petting sucking or whatever has been AGREED. Shower fresh... why does that even have to be asked ? It should ALWAYS be expected!