Hiya,
My name is Lucy; i am a non-op trans girl, though i am 8 months on HRT, though lot living femme full time yet.
I have been trans and always felt like and wanted to be a girl for literally as far back as i can remember. I was the only 'boy?' (as i had to pretend to be) in my year at school, that took needlework and Aerobics as an option and did home economics and work experience in a nursery, i think that pretty much says it all about me : )
I did what a lot of people here might have done though, which is try to live the life that this vanilla society expects from us, so was in a long term relationship with someone i love as a person, but ultimately it don't work, because i came to realise that you can't run or get away from who you really are, and eventially admitted to myself that i would always be girl, at the very least internally, and that was never goign to change, it is who i am, and that i was not attracted to who i was with or any girl for that matter, because i'm attracted to men. This long term relationship ended for these reasons, and as sad as it is when a relationship has to end, perhaps i can now move on a bit with the life and kind of lifestle that more fits who i am; so here i am, looking to chat to new people, and when i am ready, meet for fun or dating, until i meet someone that i want a steady and committed relationship with, and who wants the same (^_^)
Where it says 'gay' in my profile, i want to add that i describe myself as a straight woman, but for want of a more accurate option, that's what i ticked, but just wanted to clarify that i am a non-op Tgirl who is attracted to men :)
What i am looking for:
I guess i'm looking for a guy that is attracted to girls, though at the same time, if he's Bi, that could also work, as he could potentially be around me whether i am in girl or boy mode, but ideally i guess i'd like to meet him as Lucy first, as thatis how they saw me first, and the real me.
To anyone who wants to chat on the phone; while i do speak in a soft and femminine way i think, keep in mind that i am a non/pre-op trans girl, so if you have any expecations for me to sound like a CIS girl or Tgirl, you may be disappointed (A have had a couple of guys in the past have these expecations, so i'm putting this out there beforehand).
If anyone is confused (understandably) that it say's i can't travel or accomodate in my profile, i want to clear this up. I don't drive/have a licence or own a car, so i can only travel a short distance from where i live to meet someone or be picked up if the other person has a car, though i may be open to accomodate where i live in the future, but please also note i don't do blind dates ar accept friend requests from people who's faces i havn't seen, so i know they are an adult and not someone i know off of here etc.
Also, as a bottom (for want of a better word), i am ONLY interested in tops, not bottoms or vers/switches. It's nothing personal, just my personal prefernce in terms of what i am looking for, though still happy to chat to anyone : )
I tend to have red or black hair, (though have done pink also), blue eyes and of a meduim build, i'm usually a size 9-10, tohugh not quite at the moment, and want to work my way back down to that.
I like the usual things really, like eating out, watching a movie or boxset or just snuggle in and watch some telly, visiting somewhere nice or scenic, dancing, shopping, the cinema and things like that really; and also a bit of a gamer girl, and like Co-Op gaming, and i have an Xbox and Playstation, so if you're interested, and it's a game i am happy to play, feel free to ask, and you never know : )
The kinds of styles i like to wear generally, are smart but pretty, a skater dress or skater skirt with nice top, something short and clingy or sophisticated when going out, depending on my mood.
Favourate overal colour: Pink, but varies depending on the object : )
Personality wise, i'm generally very girlie-girl (encase you hadn't already guessed Lol) (^_^) I'm a happy kind of person, i'm very muych in touch with my femininity and emotions (i cry easily at sad movies/programs, videos etc) : ) and i like to think i have a passionate and have a romantic heart.
If you've gotten this far (yes, i can talk a lot, so well done Lol), sorry for all the background stuff, but thank you for taking the time to read what i had to say x :)
Hugs,
Lucy xx
