I live fulltime presenting female.
I have been on here for a while now. To save people some time, I am highly unlikely to do anything sexual on a first meet. Coffee and chat is my expectation for the first meeting.
Also, I am unlikely to respond to any more one-line approaches, like Hi or especially if they are suggesting immediate sex.
Fabbing a picture is more likely to get my attention than a wink. I always check to see who has fabbed, and it helps to know what you like!