Honestly..?
Well, individuals and or couples, to hang out with, have a laugh now and then. Watch TV, a movie or just sit listening to tunes and chatting, intelligent convesation, share a meal, i love to cook, as well as stoned and or d*unken giggles and flirtation. Someone who enjoys smoking a joint, having a few drinks and or enjoying an edible, getting baked... getting to know each other for the unique wonderful crazy beings we are, in an open, none judgmental environment... someone to also enjoy the benefits of sex in all its wonder and explore it together, from, watching porn, edging, mutual masturbation, oral and so on, as it organically happens. Someone with whom something more, may come, in time through shared experience, swinging, role-playing, fantasy fulfillment, something natural, ENM or Poly ideally. Lol x
Well you asked... he he . X
I used to do the anonymous come round and oral, sex, orgasm, leave thing, it was fun. But I am older now, I am a fucked up, true, though only in the ways most of us in some measure are i think? Though I am working on that to. I identify as gender fluid, often crossdress, though I see it more as at home and outside wear nowadays! Lol, stoner, helps with anxiety and arthritis, but l do enjoy recreationally to, love edibles, bake my own brownies, happy to share (would like to find shrooms again, yes bit of a hippy).
Occasionally a hot mess, but also sometimes, just a mess In truth, i started my journey late, makes it hard to date, in the "conventional" sense. I live alone. I have a few close friends, I love, who know the real me, and love me, but they are all platonic, and true.
However, they are all settling down, socials becoming "family", and a little bit "last single standing" attention for my comfort, though still meet up with them and enjoy, lunches, shopping twice a month, its chat, more then conversation, its nice enough, if a tad vanilla for my nature and true personality.
But, I get lonely, and in truth very horny.Lol, I have a high sex drive, which is fun, but also can be a bit of a pain as I get older and find myself once more single and alone. Finding your people in your late forties is challenging, but when you're still finding yourself? Well truth, it can be exhausting. X
Ok above, is "what I am looking for/What are you after?"
About me, I am an average human being in appearance, but with some self cultivation, hair dye, clippers, and some landscaping, and suitable attire, I turn out ok, hehe, pretty well...on occasion handsome, on others pretty, even known to dable in sexy now and then, ha!. A late in life beginning for reasons too long and dramatic, though entertaining, to gone into on this platform. Gender fluid, though the older I get, and the more work I do on myself, the more the needle moves to female, in relation to feeling like the real me i am searching for. A work in progress lets say? Current "dad bod", though working off the lb's, with diet, despite occasional though, understandable indulgences. I do love food, take away, homemade, i do love to cook. I am a comic nerd and big MCU, anime and horror fan, weakness for goths... hehe
I would love to meet singles and couples, males, females, Trans and all the wonderful NB spectrum are welcome, I am pansexual.
In particular love to get to know bisexual couples, especially involving non binary partners. For connection and their perspective, wisdom, if play too, fantastic, but never expected, only ever respected. Hehe x
Also any non binary individuals, for friendship and or fun, again benefits optional. But thing like girly night, dress up, edging and toy porn and music sessions, love someone to teach me make up, feminisation, and of course hangs to, cinema, bite to eat, drinks, , general social fun etc...Just nice to have company and stimulation, while honestly being me, as fluid as thst may be.
Well if any of the above strikes a chord, write me a message, or if not sure what to say wink, or fab a pic, I shall always check out who did, if interested I will likewise message, wink or fab.
I don't usually respond to blank profiles, no photos, or one sentence or "meet now" messages (unless I have posted a meet requesting a meet that time). Nor do I respond to straight single males or those cheating on partners. Life is better open and honest. That's the energy and vibe I am looking for, everything else is the journey. Seeking those to walk the road with me... hehe
Surprise me.
Liberty (Matthew) Wilde. Hugs and kisses. Xox
