Discretion is most important im a separated (straight ??) but still married man ,,,looking for those who ate also nsa life has been miserable hiding this part of me and if I have any chance of my marriage rebuilding i need to experiment with this side its what she told me im really looking for and why Im not happy and unable to respect and desire her...Im afraid to admit it because of the man's man environment I work and am socially involved in so I need to experiment with someone who is patient and respectful to my circumstances