FabGuys.com: Graham (71) , Man in Winchester, South East, UK

If I must make a choice between "top" and "bottom", then I am a bottom. I certainly regard myself as more feminine than masculine in my sexuality, even though I actually also prefer a more feminine partner (at least in looks, although probably not in actions). I am definitely more passive than active. I prefer my partner to be in control. When it comes to oral or anal I prefer receiving to giving. But there are no rules here for me. I don't have rigid preferences. In the right circumstances or with the right partner I can certainly be a top rather than a bottom.

Note "if I HAVE TO make a choice", though. The reality is that my sexuality is a lot more complex than that. I CAN top, especially if with a TV, and I have many widely different sexual personalities. I enjoy many things, particularly if I know they are giving pleasure to my partner, so don't imagine I am only what you read first here - contact me (as long as you can accommodate or see other ways we could meet without it being at my home) and let's see what happens!

For those who are sapiosexual I certainly hope I can satisfy that way, as I am a member of Mensa. But if that is of no interest it doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I have many widely different lusts and fantasies, so if either my profile title or current status are very different from what you are looking for we may still match and enjoy some great play together. Especially if you are a TV/TS (I really love sessions with TV/TS, whether top or bottom), in which case ignore what my status says unless you like it anyway! Just check whether there is anything in this profile that turns you on at all.

If you are not in my area it doesn't necessarily matter, and if I have winked at you it means I am confident I can travel to you ok. I have relatives in Rotherham, Derby, and Cardiff; cannot accommodate there as they must not know, but may be able to visit you when visiting them if you are nearby. or if you are nowhere near any of those places or me and I have still winked, then take it for the compliment it is - that I will very happily travel all that way just for the pleasure of being with you!

I am more straight than bi, so I am particularly fond of TS/TV ladies. But also enjoy being taken (perhaps without choice) by a man who likes to corrupt straight guys and make them see their gay side - or perhaps even better, likes to take his pleasure from them even if he knows they may be getting no pleasure themselves and are just feeling used and humiliated. I have no romantic attraction at all to guys who are not trans, but this particular scenario works when a real guy (maybe hairy chested and bearded) forces himself on me, kissing me deeply (which to me is the ultimate in romantic lovemaking and is therefore sexually humiliating when a guy does it to me as I am not romantically attracted to guys), rubbing his hairy body over me, and making quite clear that he is going to fulfil his own romantic interests even though he knows they are not mine.

Humiliation is good. Maybe linked to being spat and peed on, made to lick you clean after you have been to the loo, made to put on panties and tights etc, or even fully dress (can provide all the clothing, although I don't have wigs or shoes so would need you to provide those if you want them too), get perfumed up, and parade up and down for you and your friends to laugh at, grope, pinch, smack, and perhaps grab to take me to a private room so they can have their pleasure as they wish.

As an anal-giving virgin I love the idea of someone sitting astride me, kissing, wanking and sucking me hard, and then guiding me into them and making me give them anal.

Make me do to you whatever gives you pleasure, or make me accept whatever you do to me to take your pleasure that way. I can dress if you like (despite the beard) but this is not essential. If you don't like cross-dressers, don't worry as I am happy to come across as a "man's man" and not give any sign of such tendencies - just let me know so I don't offend.

I enjoy taking a passive role, whether as a bottom or a top. So if you want me to top you but are also happy to control how and when it happens, then perfect! If you want to top me, and do so without waiting for permission, even better!

If you are TV, especially if you are quite realistic, I am happy to play either way. I will happily top and dom you if you wish, or even more happily be topped and dommed.

It is good if I am given no choice. Especially (but not essential) if I am bound.

I like to be (mildly) spanked.

I tend to be anally bottom, but orally both top and bottom. I also enjoy wanking and being wanked. Of course, if you are in control you will decide what I must do and what will be done to me anyway, although control is not essential.

If roleplaying, maybe think of me as almost a straight, who is either taken and made to perform with or for you doing whatever you decide will give you pleasure, or who is ready to experiment and play anyway - depending on whether or not you like the BDSM side.

My preference in roleplay is certainly someone or a couple (or even a group) who gets off making a straight (or someone who thinks he is straight) see that he is really gay. Taking great pleasure from my embarrassment as I respond sexually in situations where I don't think I should be responding. Or someone who likes tying me up and then using me (and perhaps having his friends use me too) regardless of the fact I do not seem to be enjoying it to say the least. I am happy to sign something before this particular type of play so it is clear I have invited this.

When it comes to a TV/TS in particular, the roleplay is not essential unless it is something that stimulates you too. We can go for just straight play, or even have me in control if this is what you like.

I like my TVs to wear nice slinky nylons, whether stockings, holdups or tights. Preferably not fishnets, as I really enjoy feeling and licking your legs and toes through silky nylon.

My favourite play by far with a TS is to begin with flirty conversation, leading to kissing, cuddling, and fiddling, but with me thinking she is a CIS girl. She then says it will be more fun if she ties me up and then plays with me, and I agree. Once I am bound, naked or semi-naked, she continues the play, getting me really aroused, but then pulls down her panties revealing her own aroused cock. Now I realise I have been making love with a transexual, not a CIS girl. She laughs at my discomfort, then uses my mouth, hands and bum on her cock to take her pleasure regardless of how I feel. She continues to take her pleasure as she wishes until she cums either inside me (e.g. my mouth) or all over me.

I love the idea of being at a party and for all there to know that I have to be available for whatever they want to do to me. I am tied to a bed in a room where a visitor can lock the door if they wish so nobody knows the filthy things they decide to do with me. They have their fun with me, then leave with me still unable to move and not knowing who the next visitor will be, when they will come in, and what they will do (or make me do to them), and not knowing when this is all going to end. Perhaps it will only be a few hours, perhaps it will be all night, but it could even be all night, all the next day, and all the following night too. I know I have no control over what might happen, with whom, and for how long, and how much cum will be on me and in my mouth and how long it will be before I can clean it off.

I am married and she knows nothing about this side of me. I need to keep it that way. So I cannot accommodate, and have to keep things discreet.

I am not really into outdoor play, so it is best if you can accommodate, or if we can use a hotel room for our play. Happy to travel quite a long distance for a good play session. If I can stay overnight to recover for my drive home I am prepared to drive anywhere in England for the right play.

I have very few limits, but will not accept financial domination, branding, fire, marks on my face or hands that will still be very noticeable several hours after play (more hidden areas are acceptable for hard punishment, and not too hard face slapping is fine too), permanent marks or damage (one shoulder dislocates easily, so that includes the rack, and suspension from the ceiling unless handled carefully so my arms are not too stretched), and nipple torture. Other than all that I am all yours!

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