Im a Gay man and Im on Fabswingers because I recognise that there are guys out there that appreciate the company of a Cross Dressing male and not wishing to sound rude or 'sizeist' an acceptable proportion between height and size would be necessary.
I guess you were attracted to my photos. I only meet guys who also have photos - law of attraction and all that. If your photos feature your splayed ass, it won't impress me.
I do understand the need for discreation.
I have a particular love of PVC and or Latex Rubber which I combine with underwear, stockings etc