AuDHD (autism + ADHD) guy here — sometimes my "spicy brain" means I'm not always super responsive online, but I'm happy to chat when something clicks.
Relationship style: Open relationship, but we play separately, don't ask, not gonna happen.
What I'm into:
Masculine guys (body hair, natural musk, rough and ready, skilled with tongue/hands turn me on)
Kinks/fetishes that tie into masculinity.
No feminine vibes — thongs, g-strings, fishnets, words like "pussy", etc. are a hard pass.
Sex essentials:
Kissing is non-negotiable unless it's oral only.
Mutual oral (taking turns focusing 100% on one person at a time — not necessarily 69)
Lots of body exploration — slow discovery of what makes each other squirm and vibe
More often top, but happy to bottom if the chemistry feels right (your 6 inches or less.
Bareback only (condoms kill it for me)
On PrEP, regularly tested.
Logistics:
Sometimes host, sometimes travel (bus/train)
Nottinggam-based
Messaging rules:
No face + frontal body pics in profile? Send them with your first message — I won't reply without.
Include your current favourite song to show you've actually read this (no song = no reply) (There are exceptions to this)
If I don't reply, I'm just not feeling it — same courtesy expected. Repeated messages without response = block.
Other stuff:
420 and shrooms friendly.
Friends welcome too (especially other AuDHD / neurospicy folks)
Got a Meta Quest — happy to connect on Horizon Worlds and just started DnD if anyone has an open space in their group (we can roll a d20 for vibe check hehe)
Gabe x x x
