Have an urge to wear, show off and primarily meet, learn and have fun with fellow wearers who hopefully can accommodate.
I was a recent member who is going through some personal stuff at the moment and deleted my account in a fit of guilt.
Don't want to meet everyone on the site specifically folk who risk their health and that of others.
Not a bottom.
Not interested in pushy folk.
I can never accommodate and definitely not outdoors.
Ultimately a nice regular friend with some patience initially.