To me, sex is not necessarily about cumming off. It's the journey.....it involves.
I prefer to be bottom.
tatoos/Piercings...a huge turn on but I think, perhaps, the men on this site may be fearful!
Sorry, chubby doesn't do it for me unless you're hung like a horse.
Water-sports with right man.
Regular meets would be best.
Stubble/beard a big tick.
Extremely sensitive and discrete to other's needs , be they married etc etc
Must be a passionate kisser and a sense of humour/honesty