Not open about my bisexuality. I'm married and want to keep it that way, extreme discretion needed at all times. Im a van driver can't and won't have hour long text chats. 90% of my meets will be blow and go. 100% oral that means no "anal" giving or receiving. I generally do not add friends until afterwards have met. Update I have a hollow strap on, 6" long for the meets when they really need fucked.