Ideally looking for some lower intensity fun with a guy where we're not immediately kicking each other out right after - think along the lines of some kissing, cuddles and / or spooning, maybe some oral.
These days I'm definitely feeling more like a Side than a Top - while fucking's not off the table, it's not a guarantee. No harm in asking though!
More than happy to whup your ass at some Mario Kart / Smash Bros if you have it, either before or after making out ;)