FabGuys.com: R (46) , Man in BIRMINGHAM, West Midlands, UK

I’ve been around this site in different guises over the years. I’ve done the whole “no pic,” then “body pic,” then inevitably “dick pic” routine. None of that really landed, probably because I’m not here for one-word messages, emoji replies, or lazy attempts at conversation. If you can’t string a sentence together, we’re not going to click. I value words, effort, and people who can hold a conversation with as much honesty as they hold eye contact.

So, the essentials ABOUT ME:

* Early 40s

* Professional and literate

* Kind, caring, and sane (all three matter equally)

* Bisexual

* Generally Top/Dom, but exploring the versatile side

* Male model but also enjoys crossdressing

--What I’m actually looking for--

I’m drawn to mature guys, ideally 50+ but younger is totally fine, who know who they are and what they want. I’m open to building something meaningful, at the very least, a genuine friendship with depth. I have no time for quick shags or surface-level interactions. I want safe, thoughtful connections with men who see people, not just bodies.

I'm really interesting in talking to and meeting:

* Chubby guys

* Crossdressers

* Anyone outside the “mainstream”

You are all very welcome here. Especially those wanting to find a safe space to start dressing even if you're hairy or not the right size or shape, I’ve always believed kindness and curiosity are far more attractive than abs and filters. If you can be nice, articulate, and genuinely present, we’ll probably get along. I may be TOP and sometimes DOM, but being a good human being is more important.

What I’m really after is a space that feels safe, welcoming, and nourishing for both of us. Friendship can grow into something deeper, but it doesn’t need to be fake. No strings, no demands, no empty games, just real human connection, built on conversation, care, and maybe a shared laugh or two.

If you’ve made it this far, you already stand out. Send me a proper message. Tell me what you’re into, what excites you, or even just how your day has been. Show me you’re here for more than scrolling and ghosting. If you do, you’ll get all of me in return, honesty, warmth, and a willingness to explore where this could go.

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