Know the score and when to spot time wasters etc..
Looking for hot fun, can't always meet, can never accom, can be a little fussy but all depends on the chemistry really, just don't have time for weirdos or insecure people, I'm confident when going, ideally looking for getting naked in a bed and having fun, kink friendly to a degree, but again not one to say no to everything if it's a turn on :)