Sometimes, I honestly don’t understand some people on this app, especially within the Black community. There is so much unnecessary suspicion and confusion.
Let’s be honest: we don’t know each other. We are not friends, we are not family. We simply meet on this platform, and everyone knows why they are here and what they are looking for.
So, why would I need to be discreet? Am I interested in sharing your pictures with other people? Do I look like someone who has nothing to do with his life? Do I look jobless or like someone who has time to spend gossiping about people?
I have absolutely no interest in that. I am a very busy person, focused on my work, my goals and building a better future for myself. I came to this country to work hard, make money, hustle and create a better life, not to go around exposing people, sharing their pictures or discussing who knows whom.
I barely even have friends here because I am focused on my own journey.
So, when someone constantly asks me whether I can be discreet, it honestly sounds ridiculous. I understand privacy and respect boundaries, but please don’t project your fears and insecurities onto me. Not everyone has the time, energy or interest to be involved in unnecessary drama.
