I’ve built the courage and had a first experience with someone trusted! I can enjoy dressing occasionally but can also not be dressed.
[Update April 2025] My friend and I have less experience but have started talking about whether we’d meet a third person as a couple. We’d need to feel comfortable with them first and they’d need to be able to accommodate.
I am curious and have struggled with this for years. I get strong urges that come and go, but am very nervous and cautious, so I won’t be meeting strangers instantly.
Looking and chatting and seeing how it goes. If I take the plunge, I’d be looking for a good person who I get along with well and can trust. We’re all real people with real lives, I’d not treat anyone as an object! I’m not one for playing the field and so I’d prefer one person or a very small number of people, rather than working my way through the site. :)
Sadly, there are some people on here who are rude, insulting or pushy. Kindness doesn’t cost anything.
