Discreet clean kinky fun - I’m a realist but at the same time I like the idea of a regular who is willing to do stuff for me. - Giving me attention and flattery gets you everywhere with me. - wearing male Lycra for me gets you what you want . The psychological aspect of being a crossdresser is important to me. I want a top not a passive one either . ***important note of your coming to cork give me a weeks notice *****