To all those guys who cannot accommodate, because you can't or won't take the risk,"show some respect" for those if us that do accommodate. We're inviting you to our home where we live with our wives/partners and that involves risk and trust. If it wasn't for people like us you'd all be meeting outside where the risk of being caught is massive. For this reason I not meet very often mainly because I am selective about who comes into my home. If I invite you over I'll make sure you leave happy, very satisfied, and wanting to return. I love kissing, but that is not a deal-breaker, I love giving and receiving oral [to completion] and I'll swallow for the right guy. I'll also give/receive anal depending on the situation on the day.