I have been on the site for a few weeks and chatted with a few people although not met anyone as yet but I now understand more of what I am hoping to meet on this site. As a youngster I had the usual couple of gay/bi fumbles which although I enjoyed I felt guilty about at the time. I dabbled in cross dressing in an ex girlfriends clothes which she left at my house when we split up but this was also a long time ago. I did the usual and got married but I was widowed a few years ago and after that I met a cd/tv friend with whom I had a long term friendship/relationship till covid came along and spoilt things. No I am not remarried and yes I do have a girlfriend although she is more of a friend than a sexual partner. I am and probably always have been curious about where I fit in the sexual spectrum but would like to meet someone of a similar age to my self who is also curious about how they fit in. You may be a dresser, I love a person in nice lingerie especially stockings and suspenders. What I am not looking for is someone with loads of friends and verifications and meet ups. I am wanting to find someone to experience each others curiosities with, you will probably be a similar age to my self and although at the moment I cannot accommodate I should be able to within the next couple of months. If any of this interests you and you want to know more feel free to ask. I am between Leeds and York so factor that in for distance. Hopefully I will hear from someone soon.Let me apologise, I was chatting with a couple of people and last thursday my computer updated and so it logged me out of here. I tried to get back into my email account that I used to set this profile up and it wouldn't let me. I have finally regained my access to the site this morning so I haven't gone AWOL it's down to modern technology.