FabGuys.com: Frank (43) , Man in Hamilton, Scotland, UK

Married, discreet, and new to this world — but finally ready to explore the side of me I’ve kept hidden for too long. I can’t host and need to keep things under wraps, but I’m eager to learn, obey, and please.

I’m submissive by nature and looking for a confident, patient Dom (or experienced tops) to guide me. I don’t have much real experience yet, but my mind’s been there for years. If you’re into training, control, or just enjoy taking the lead with a willing newbie, let’s talk.

Clean, respectful, and serious about finding the right connection — not into drama or games. Just looking for someone who understands discretion and wants to teach someone hungry to serve.

Limits: No pain, no marks, no public. Discretion is non-negotiable.

Turn-ons: Verbal control, light bondage, edging, humiliation play (soft to moderate), oral servitude, being used for your pleasure.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, I’d love to hear what you’d do with me.

I’m naturally more introverted, but once I feel comfortable with someone, there's definitely a cheekier, adventurous side that comes out. If you're kind, patient, and love the idea of showing a curious guy the ropes, we’ll probably get on just fine ??

I'm looking to meet open-minded, genuine men or couples who appreciate that everyone's journey is different. I’d love to start with some relaxed chats, build a connection, and take things from there—whether that’s something casual, sensual, or just discovering new turn-ons together.

I’m not into pressure, drama, or egos. Discretion is important to me, and I offer the same in return. Ideally, you’re someone who enjoys the mental side of things just as much as the physical, and who’s turned on by the idea of teasing, flirting, and exploring new dynamics at a pace that feels right.

Since I’m new, I’m still figuring out my exact likes—but I’m intrigued by:

Light Dom/sub dynamics (willing to explore)

Watching and being watched

Group energy (if the vibe is right)

Being guided by someone confident and experienced

Roleplay, sensual teasing, oral, and more...

Safe, respectful play only. I’m happy to chat about boundaries and see where things align.

If you’re local (or can accommodate), respectful, and turned on by the idea of taking things slow with someone curious and genuine, drop me a message. I might be shy at first, but if we click… I promise I’ll be worth getting to know ??

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