Here to see who's about, have a bit of a chat over time, see if there's a spark that isn't just a flicker and then, whenever if feels right, hook up.
I like a bit of connection, even if it's only fleeting; even brief encouters can be incredibly memorable.....the replay in my head is so much better than porn (thanks for the awesome mind porn so far guys)
Love to snog and I'm very tactile, I just like to explore and rub and feel and kiss and lick.... I also tend to snog on meeting just to break the ice ;-)
Veering more from bottom to verse as I get older. I can top with people I vibe with and if I've met a few times it's easier but sometimes I see a perfect arse that just needs to be eaten, fucked and my cum balls deep in it.
Meets, travel, sometimes accom. No car meets though, I'd have to tidy it first and quite frankly, fuck that.
Ask for pics/vids. Still working out what pics and vids aren't shit, my photo/videography skills aren't the best.
One-offs,short flings, coffee and a snog, but if there's a great vibe then regular/fwbs not off the table, though I'm very lucky to have some fucking awesome friends with benefits, past and present.
I'm not sure traditional heteronormative monogamous social pair bonding is something that I resonate with. Polyamoury feels in the right area maybe, not sure.
Bareback only for me, like to feel a man skin on skin. U=U
I occasionally do immediate hookups, has to be the right timing for me, but generally I prefer to chat and message, banter a bit before meeting. When I've got the chance to hook up, I'm way more likley to do that with someone I've chatted to before.
Vids are fine if: 2 conditions, no face and I get a copy ;-)
HH friendly, just don't be so out of it that there's no trace of the real you to meet.
I live in Stalybridge and very rarely accomodate, except for a very few individuals of exceptional note (I got tingles just writing that).
Manchester, Sheffield, Leeds, York, Bridlington, Hull and all the places in between. I drive and travel a lot and occasionally drive to the other side of the country, sometimes just because.
Instruction Manual: Under Construction
As far as having a type is concerned, kinda, sometimes ish I suppose but also not really. If there's a sexual connection with someone then I suppose they are my type. Sometimes I don't immediately find a guy attractive as such, but then he'll do or say something that just makes him light up. I I like hearing what guys a passionate about, I really buzz off that, be that sexually or otherwise.
I don't like to make promises I can't keep so if I make a firm arrangement with you, date, time, location, that's only when I'm as certain as possible that I can deliver on that..... hmm I must get that engine light seen to.... equivalently, if we do arrange and you want to back out for any reason, just tell me you've changed your mind... it's genuinely fine, mutual respect and consent are important to me.
Some people have characterised my general presentation as friendly, quirky, really rather weird but in a really likable way...... like a Space Gandalf, (I think that was a compliment).. talking to you was like being hit by a truck, but in a nice way, really love that one.
generally friendly but please try not to be a cunt
