I REQUIRE A FACE PICTURE PLEASE, NO FACE PICTURE, NO CHAT!!! NO EXCUSES, NO EXCEPTIONS. PLEASE ATTACH A FACE PICTURE TO YOUR INITIAL MESSAGE. IF YOU HAVE NO FACE PICTURE THEN BLOCK MY ACCOUNT!!! I HAVE ZERO INTEREST IN FACELESS PROFILES!! IF YOU NEVER LEAVE YOUR PC SCREEN THEN KINDLY JOG ON!!
Be clean please, no cheesy cocks or filthy arses!! There is no bigger turn off and I personally find it quite repulsive. If you are seeking an adonis then you are in the wrong place, I am a plain joe blogs here, a Master who also happens to be an experienced top !!!! I am by no means perfect, I have faults, I make mistakes but who doesn't, I am human for God's sake.
I tend to host in NG2, The Meadows area of Nottingham. I am Derek here or Master, which ever name you feel comfortable with. If you are based miles away from Nottingham then there is no point in contacting me please as the probability of us meeting is possibly zero. I never arrange meets in advance as guys never stick to the arrangement.
TOP only guy, I fuck as top, I as top, I am NEVER ever the bottom guy and I have no intention of ever changing that, I enjoy being a TOP guy too much.
Experienced TOP FISTER, over 15 years experience of guys, I take my time, I am prepared to go at YOUR pace, it is not a race, nor is it a competition, FISTING can be pretty awesome done in the right circumstances. If you are looking to explore, experiment, push limits and boundaries then may be for you. Guys often envisage as being very painful, it is not if done properly and given time and the necessary lubrication, it can be immensely pleasurable and many guys are very happy to endure the journey!! Guys very often describe the feeling and sensation of being as awesome!! Don't knock it until you have tried it. is NOT an essential requirement to meeting and it is not a deal breaker.
I do NOT and will NOT use gloves to guys. I with bare hands. I am not out to hurt or to damage anyone, I take total responsibility for anyone who I am using. I have been meeting some regular guys for meets for over 15 years and I have verifications on my profile to clarify this.
Few limits with no set agenda, just see what the moment brings, It is neither a race nor a competition. I am open minded and broad minded.
TRUST is very important, TRUST forms a very big part of any S&M, BDSM relationship, TRUST is paramount, there needs to be a good solid connection too and much compatibility.
We need to get on, we need to gel, we need to connect, there has got to be a genuine CONNECTION for it to work. S&M, BDSM has nothing to do with good looks, physique, cock size or any amount of beauty, it all depends on a good connection and trust!
Men on here appear pretty hung up about cock size, trust me, size is not everything, if you believe that it is then you are pretty shallow!!
PLEASE NOTE: I only meet guys who KISS AND SNOG, Kissing is an absolute must!! If you do not kiss/ snog then it just is not going to happen. I use kissing and snogging as part of my foreplay and this is very important to me.
Sex is just not sex without KISSING OR SNOGGING. I enjoy the sensual side of sex too, I like to be tactile, I enjoy foreplay, exploring one another's bodies etc......
Guys will happily rim a dirty, filthy arse yet will not kiss, that amazes me at times!!! LOL
If you use po**ers then you will supply your own, I am NOT a pharmacy here. I myself use Po**ers but it does not necessarily mean that you have to.
TOTAL and ABSOLUTE discretion given to Bisexual guys.
I will never break that promise, I am not on here to out anyone or to destroy anyone's relationship or marriage, my word is my bond!!
Business men, Professional guys, uniformed workers including emergency services workers all welcome!!
I need to SPEAK on the phone before any agreed meet, NO exceptions, NO excuses. I will DEMAND to speak to you or it goes nowhere.
I will require a MOBILE NUMBER to prove that you are totally genuine. If you are not happy sharing your mobile number then do NOT message me and block my account. I need to know who I am allowing into my home!! I use WhatsApp here too for discretionary purposes and I have more pictures to send via this app if necessary.
I am friendly and approachable, caring, considerate, very easy going, NON PUSHY, happy to discuss your needs and requirements, none judgemental, I try never to judge anyone.
I do not suffer fools gladly though.
NOT looking for love or a relationship!! I already have one of those!!
My relationship is 26 years and still counting.
He knows I have an account on this site.
NOT really seeking one off meets, little can be achieved in just one meet.
I much prefer REGULAR guys to build trust and rapport. TRUST is gained over a period of time whilst getting to know a person and by seeing how they perform etc. You will appear keen and committed and be very happy in your role.
NOT seeking TV/TG/TS/CD. NO offence, just not my thing!!!
I enjoy guys in Leather or Rubber too.
I enjoy urethral dilation together with urethral sounding. I am happy to introduce guys to SOUNDING if any guys are keen to explore this.
I like to take charge and take the lead as it were, I enjoy full control, YOU will merely comply, serve, please, submit and obey, YOU will follow orders and commands.
I try never to take this site seriously, so many dreamers and fake people on here!! Guys tell you one thing and then do the exact opposite, they make promises that they know they cannot stick too, they promise to meet knowing full well that they have no intention of ever doing so!! Guys sit on this site 24/7 and never meet a soul, the words "keyboard Wankers" comes to mind!!
Guys are so full of empty promises on this site, the number of time wasters on here is phenomenal. Guys will easily say that they are absolutely GENUINE when in-fact they are quite the opposite, being GENUINE on this site is a very tall order!!
Please try and be shaved or at least trimmed, shaving reduces sweating and odour and it also reduces debris, it feels much cleaner and fresher and is much easier to keep the pubic area clean and hygienic.
I am also happy to SHAVE guys, PUBIC SHAVING that is. I have been shaving guys for many years now and I am experienced.
NOT seeking time wasters, odd-bods, Nut Jobs, Head cases, weirdo's, fruit loops, game players or village Idiots, fakes, keyboard wankers, Escorts, Rent Boys. Fantasists and those living in a Walter Mitty existence will not be tolerated so do not even consider approaching me!!
If you are a member of the ignorant brigade or you have an attitude problem then kindly jog on please. If you create a profile only to delete it one hour later then do not approach me as I would simply view you as a time waster!!
Be comfortable in your own skin, this is the 21st. Century for Gods sake.
Most of all be GENUINE and HONEST please, I can deal with honesty, sugar coated bull shit I cannot!!! I am honest and genuine here, not that honesty accounts for anything on this site.
I am NOT on here for confrontation or arguments.
If you have nothing nice to say then say nothing. I prefer to avoid toxic people!! Life is too short for drama.
R.I.P. Jon. Died 19th. July 2022. Greatly missed and never ever forgotten. So many memories of times shared together. The world is a far poorer place without you in it Jon. I feel very privileged and incredibly blessed to have known you.
