Sorted, considerate, with a sense of humour and lack of attitude. I look after myself, I'm comfortable in my own skin and the age stated is my real one (i.e. not -5 or 10).
I'm attracted to men of different ages, shapes, sizes and races, but cross-dressing, group sex, CP, HnH and chastity devices aren't for me (plus I'm hairy, which may not be your thing). I can be up for a bit of roleplay, but nothing abusive or highly aggressive; if you're hugely concerned with presenting as alpha male, we probably won't be a match. Selfishness is my main turn-off; demanding attention and stimulation while offering little in return.
I've learned that drop-em/no-foreplay/fuck-and-go meets don't work for me. Fair play if that's your preference, but keep scrolling, because we're not going to have a good time together. On the other hand, sensuality, connection and taking time over sex are all big pluses.
If I message and we're not close, I'm simply saying hello. I understand geography.
I'll always respect a need for discretion, but if you can't share a pic with me privately, look me in the eye during sex, and kiss, it's unlikely we'll meet. Finally, and I say this on behalf of everyone, please be freshly showered
(unless other arrangements have been requested). I have regular sexual health checks, I'm on event-based PREP and I'm fully vaccinated against Monkeypox.
PS My facial recall isn't great, so I may well ask to see your pic more than once, if it isn't visible. I have verifications, but choose not to display them... I think what goes on between people in private is strictly a matter for them. This isn't Shagadvisor.