Im a 29 year old Black gay American man living in London. If not in London then just visiting. I am a passionate, multifaceted guy. My body is only half of who I am, there's a lot more to me than meets the eye.
I'm a mindful, sensitive man. Looking for cum filled cuddles with conscious fellas. I may have a gruff exterior but I'm deeply sensitive. Ive lived a very colorful life and have no room to judge because of it. No stranger to substances but more interested in sober meets. Connection is everything.
I do not fit into the stereotypes you may have about Black men. I have had people try to put me in boxes all my life, whether boxes in their imagination, boxes behind bars, or boxes in the ground. Yet to their suprise, I avoid them or never fit in them to begin with. No more boxes. Engage with me like I'm an individual with thoughts and feelings or dont engage me at all.
Much more selective these days. I need to be confident we'll have a connection, so I'm not interested in using a man's body to masturbate. I love body contact, there's a lot of me to touch well before you get below the waist. There is so much more to sex than penetration.
Love my nipples sucked on, kissing, getting sucked and sucking. Love to breed. Neg on prep and get tested regularly. U=U! Know your status! FF can be hot with the right guy, my paws will give you quite the stretch.
I love intimacy and closeness. Affection. Doesnt freak me out and I dont take it as more than what was right for that moment. You dont have to love me to lay with me, and you dont have to want my heart to protect it.
*Men living with HIV, mature fellas (50+), trans men are welcome. Immigrants/refugees, men with disabilities, working class welcome. Blacks, Asians, chubs welcome. I am not a safe place for racism, bigotry or stigma of any kind and if you make a mistake I will hold you accountable for it.*
Im a horny intellectual, a hedonist with a heart, open minded, kind and calm, but will not take any shit. I am not one to be tried.
Be kind to eachother, the world is hard enough for us as it is.
