I may ask you to act like you've just got home from a long day at work and to treat me like your other half, have your way with me and make it passionate - roll around with me and kiss me deeply - because I'm always the top guy at home and don't get to be under a guy in my real life.
That doesn't mean I like to wear ladies underwear though - that's not for me - keep it to two men being men.
Side fun also good. I'm about connection and doesn't always have to go all the way. But if it does and you can handle the intensity, fuck me like you love me and then we can both go back to our normal lives (then do it all over again if we hit it off).
Not judgemental about body type. I like muscle, I like moobs, give me a belly any day, be a dad or a male model - i don't care so long as you can both;
1) rail me against the door, impassioned, dick whipped out of your flies and cum within 5 thrusts
(you've been at work all day and you just need to cum quickly)
2) also handle longer sessions when you've got more time to be inside me, your body against me. I want it on my back with your arms around me and face in my neck. That way I can tell you're close and it's all you can do to hold back letting go inside me.
If you've read this far, alternatively I do just love sucking dick to completion - no questions asked. Just come in, unzip, sit down and let me at it.