I like nice guys, conversation, physical contact, hugs, and discovering how we could both find pleasure.
If I am chatting, I am likely to want to meet in the imminent future, like today.
I try to keep my list of 'interests' accurate. I assume you do, too.
I do accomm. Exceptions include:
1) I have a massive orgy planned and the house is already fully of naked folk. (You should have come earlier.)
2) My (fictitious) husband/wife/significant other has just been selected to go to the space station, but at the last minute the mission was cancelled.
3) My family are visiting.
If you show interest and I show interest, please do not expect me to arrange a third to join us (unless I have offered someone.)
Not on PrEP… it doesn't agree with me - so safe only.
As for timewasters… new tactics: arrange to meet, chat on WhatsApp then block both without explanation. Wow!
If you are short of time, then don't spend an hour talking about what you would like to do, then not have enough time to do it. It will get you off... my friends list.
Tempted to name and shame.
