UPDATE: I am currently in Post-Prostate cancer surgery recovery, having had my prostate and surrounding structures completely removed in mid-Oct. I am therefore not planning on meeting again until Spring 2025.
If you're just looking for hook-up meets then I'm probably not for you. But if you're maybe looking for a FWB, or more, then perhaps we should chat.
I have a grey beard and am hairy, so definitely qualify as a (polar) Bear!
I am versatile but I definitely really enjoy both roles. I am a masculine, alpha male but not rough-type; well read, witty, good looking nice guy. Stocky but sporty, regular runner (try to maintain 15km/week - not much, but enough) but rugby build with good strong legs and arms. I adore sex with a lovely man, I am intoxicated by making love with a lovely man and I absolutely love sucking cock. Kissing is an absolutely essential element of sex for me.
Things that I am certain I do not want include: I won't ever meet smokers, I won't ever do outdoor/car meets, I won’t ever do any form of drugs (including p*ppers), I won't ever do 3sums or group sex, and I won't ever go to saunas.
If you wear women's clothes you're definitely not for me. No offence intended.
I am a biker, both motorbike and cycling, and have recently joined the Gay Bikers Motor Cycle Club (GBMCC.co.uk) - finding a mutual biker mate would be amazing. I also enjoy dinghy sailing and SUPing.
I have recently come out as gay to my wife and my kids (all adults now). So my wife knows absolutely everything there is to know about my sexuality and me being on here - including having proof-read this profile! We are very happily married, love each other to bits, and will very much stay married. But she understands my need to find a man (or men) to let me explore and enjoy what I need and that she very obviously cannot give me. So after having spent many years actively hiding my sexuality from her, she is in reality fully accepting of it. She is a very wise, insightful and incredible woman.
I fully intend to stay married to my amazing wife, but the chance of also forming an additional meaningful, mutually rewarding, loving LTR with a lovely man (or men) would be very welcome. That could, and hopefully will, include overnights together and weekends away. Because my wife is fully aware of all of this, we would both hope that you, at some stage, would be comfortable meeting her and opening a friendship with her. THAT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT AN INVITATION TO ANY SORT OF MMF! I appreciate that some men may find that too difficult to do, and that's fine, but you won't be the man for me - but if you would be comfortable meeting her then you really could be the man I am searching for. I cannot accommodate.
Last tested at Axess Sexual Health Clinic in Crewe on 10/06/2024: all clear on all STIs & HIV negative. I am now on PrEP will have 3monthly PrEP & STI testing. Make sure you're regularly tested as well.
So that's a lot about me. I know that the chances of finding someone who can also fit within what I can offer are slim. I cannot offer a full relationship, but what I can offer is a hopefully rewarding part-time one. I don't want a series of one-off meets - I want to find a man, or a small group of men, that I can trust and who are interested in me and not just quick sex. I like long slow sensual sex in a clean, comfortable and relaxed environment.
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