Looking for slimmish or slim guys ideally but not a deal breaker so long as you aren't a couch potato! Younger under 40 that are shaven with the least body hair the better go to the top of the list; I am vers and will try to fit in with what you like, so if you are top or bottom that works either way.. friendly and discreet always ...oh n clean too ! Can accommodate or travel. Absolutely no interest in playing in public conveniences - can't think of a bigger turn off. I have a cleanliness OCD. Happy to do a quick social first meet if that helps.