Entering my naughty forties, I am hopefully a bit more settled, solvent and much calmer in my skin. Physically in good shape and mentally keeping my brain cells busy, I am quite a sexual being too who has grown fond of building an intimate bond and exploring the universe of potentials within that.
Having struggled with sexuality for long, I am now at a place in life where I feel self assured and quite confident of not labeling myself with a tag, metrosexual may be a great term. I play sport regularly and much a man's man as much as sharing sensual sensitivities esp behind closed doors.
Moving further in life, I am now looking for stability in terms of mainly regular playmate/s, who I can build familiarity with, that brings trust, some regular time out of busy schedules, that want of making time to forget the pangs of daily life and get together and have some awesome sweat out that culminates in mutual release and happiness.
Looking for many attributes, mainly a good soul, respectful, a charming smile, cozy arms and someone ideally looking for the same/similar. Of late trying to explore my sexuality with younger guys who want discreet fun with a fit older man.
I am not after a specific type, I do like guys who keep themselves reasonably in shape, although have a soft spot for a hairy chest, athletic to beefy/stocky build.
Someone who is a good conversant is a bonus. It is great to share life experiences and some level of intellect even during moments of impassioned weakness.
Skin colour /race/ accents, all such diversified beautiful attributes that make us stand out, so have no particular preference. In fact quite like a nice foreign accent, Latin, Mediterranean, Turkish, Iranian guys can be extremely sexy.
Emmad Irfani, Halit Ergenc, Taika Watiti to Marc Weiring, I find them all extremely sexy and attractive.
Sexually have varied tastes and have lived my life and been careful in avoiding STIs and hoping with built up trust, I get to experiment many things with the right guy *I do have a list of ticks waiting*
ALSO an avid traveler and love exploring cultures and histories. Short weekend 2 to 3 day get aways always on cards.
So let's connect and make some good solid joyful memories.
