FabGuys.com forum: Leaving and rejoining

By *ldersub OP Man
6 weeks ago

South Shields

Surely something can be done about people on site who arrange meeting then disappear only to come back on the following day. A certain person has been doing this for months. Can admin not look at recurring emails joining every couple of days.

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By *asyman321Man
6 weeks ago

north east

Here here

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By *heff24Man
6 weeks ago

Sheffield

Maybe just don't interact with that certain person. Ignore or block and move on

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By *opalaMan
6 weeks ago

gravesend

"Surely something can be done about people on site who arrange meeting then disappear only to come back on the following day. A certain person has been doing this for months. Can admin not look at recurring emails joining every couple of days."

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Agree

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Can admin not look at recurring emails joining every couple of days."

That’s assuming that the same email address is being used. Remember the email address isn’t shown to us, only the profile name. It is possible that they use different email addresses to avoid that being picked up and blocked.

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By *aphnestockingsTV/TS
6 weeks ago

St Leonards-on-sea

I know people who join message to meet and start planning then next day they've deleted profile

One week same person messages basically the same thing word for word I look and they signed up 2 hours ago, then they delete profile again after a day.

Just pointless if you ask me, I've even seen someone Join as site supporter then leave after 2 days and rejoin a week later having lost the site supporter as they left.

Just don't get it

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

In message filters you can select to block “newbies”. This prevents “new” profiles from messaging you. Use in conjunction with other filters (such as blocking “unverified” profiles) can reduce chancers messing you about.

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By *otsure03Man
6 weeks ago

witney

The yo-yo’s “ ooh sorry I got nervous “

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By *arridMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton

"In message filters you can select to block “newbies”. This prevents “new” profiles from messaging you. Use in conjunction with other filters (such as blocking “unverified” profiles) can reduce chancers messing you about."

Do this and chat for a few weeks first before arranging a meet.

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By *ice WankerMan
5 weeks ago

Lancs

Start charging a fee for rejoining after 2 times, might stop them doing it or at least cut it down.

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By *abguysOfficialMan
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

Nearby

Leaving and rejoining is not against site rules unless they have been disabled by the site before they leave

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By *u2usemeMan
5 weeks ago

hyde

Think people need thicker skins life's to short.

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… I've even seen someone Join as site supporter then leave after 2 days and rejoin a week later having lost the site supporter as they left…"

Yet another sign of that cost of living crisis.

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By *eeds45Man
5 weeks ago

wakefield

Ive stopped interacting with anyone that isn't verified

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By *b20Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Leaving and rejoining is not against site rules unless they have been disabled by the site before they leave"

Even if they've been constantly arranging meets and not showing up, then deleting account and rejoining, I kniw someone that's been doing this for years, ive reported it, but got the usual zero response

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Leaving and rejoining is not against site rules unless they have been disabled by the site before they leave

I’m not quite sure why FabGuys moderation should be tasked with the elimination of human frailty and human caprice when no-one else has managed this in the last 10,000 years of recorded civilisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Think you just got to accept that there is a lot of timewasters on here,who get off on wanking over pics etc.

Then you get the abusive ones who you cannot meet at 2 o clock in the morning etc etc

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By *azadarMan
5 weeks ago

North Birmingham

Aren't the new adult site verification rules meant to nip this in the bud?

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By *akituntMan
5 weeks ago

doncaster

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By *akituntMan
5 weeks ago

doncaster

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By *akituntMan
5 weeks ago

doncaster

Like many have said , its par for the course i guess , just avoid the profile types that give you this kind of run a round . Its not hard to figure out . Sorry if that sounds harsh but we,re all supposed to be adults so just be adult about it .

I mean that with all due respect

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By *akituntMan
5 weeks ago

doncaster

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Aren't the new adult site verification rules meant to nip this in the bud?"

How..?!

How does the fact that someone will have to prove they are an adult to access the site actually stop them behaving they are a twat if they choose to behave like a twat..?!

What twat protection technology are you aware of..?

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… Sorry if that sounds harsh but we,re all supposed to be adults so just be adult about it… "

It’s not harsh at all.

We are supposed to be adults.

But the problem is so many men on here want to babyfied… Remove the nasty people! Stop the time-wasters! Make it easy for me to do searches with men honestly filling in their details! Make everyone genuine! Only have members who will reply to my messages and like me!

It’s quite pathetic sometimes.

Welcome to the real, adult, world and all its imperfections.

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By *axibear1Man
5 weeks ago

wrexham

Had it happen to me many times

Same guy similar name

Says same things then never shows

I've reported him many times as a stalker

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By *wknickersMan
5 weeks ago

chorley

There’s a guy keeps messaging me to me. He keeps leaving and then rejoining uses same name but just puts different numbers at the end

Is age range goes from early 20,s to mid 50,s

If I block him he just comes back with different username.

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By *uddles4uMan
5 weeks ago

Purbeck

always report and block.

It may not resolve the issue straight away but it collects the data in the long term

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By *ewBrumBiMan
5 weeks ago

Birmingham B15

Some days I wonder how I even cope with the crushing weight of having to delete the odd message from these time wasters.

I guess I'm just a hero.

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Some days I wonder how I even cope with the crushing weight of having to delete the odd message from these time wasters.

I guess I'm just a hero."

Your ready sacrifice is an instruction to us all.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Heathrow

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By *imboMan
5 weeks ago

Knowsley / Liverpool

Why not use the message filters wer you can block newbies or change age filter

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By *iscretion69Man
5 weeks ago

Read

Good point as maybe not everyone is aware of these filters.

That’s exactly how my filters are set. It does help eliminate some of the wasters.

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By *ikekoleMan
5 weeks ago

england

who cares who leaves and joins again its there choice but many use the same description on there profile there not hard to spot if there pestering you

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By *obbieng56Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Just block them

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By *att_24Man
4 weeks ago

south abz

Think these people get a kick out wasting other people’s time in the past I’ve travelled to an address and it’s wrong address or they delete profile when you message to say your on there street wtf is wrong with people 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *arryMan
4 weeks ago

Northwich

I think some men like the idea of being bi but when it comes to actually meet. They get second thoughts and disappear

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I think some men like the idea of being bi but when it comes to actually meet. They get second thoughts and disappear"

Time-wasting is not specific to any given sexuality.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Why not use the message filters wer you can block newbies or change age filter"

Is there a special filter to block those who whinge about time-wasters incessantly?

Some of you need to put on your big boy pants and try harder.

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I don't there is any development on this site and this thread is only on here to promote user engagement.

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By *haneportsMan
3 weeks ago

portsmouth

I've had many TW, people I've believed I'm helping with advice. Then I'm ghosted or abused.

Last week a guy twice chatted about being new to bi or hes just come out to his family.

I called him out as a fake & that if he spent the same amount of time on a social life, he may actually get a boyfriend. Or a blow up doll.

He then sent several messages just containing the C##t word.

Reported & blocked.

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By *olin1951Man
3 weeks ago

worcester

I never interact with anyone who has no photos and verifications.

Even so there will always be people who get scared and do not make meetings.

Always try to meet in a neutral place like a coffee shop and never travel a long way unless 100% sure about the other person.

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By *abguysOfficialMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Nearby

"Leaving and rejoining is not against site rules unless they have been disabled by the site before they leave

That's not what I said.I said "Leaving and rejoining is not against site rules unless they have been disabled by the site before they leave"

You won't hear anything back from Admin if you report, it does say this when you submit the report.

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By *hyna HutchMan
3 weeks ago

valleys

"Why not use the message filters wer you can block newbies or change age filter

Is there a special filter to block those who whinge about time-wasters incessantly?

Some of you need to put on your big boy pants and try harder. "

I've only got a big girl's blouse.

I know what you mean though, it's a jungle here, just harden the fuck up and try not to be so emo.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Why not use the message filters wer you can block newbies or change age filter

Is there a special filter to block those who whinge about time-wasters incessantly?

Some of you need to put on your big boy pants and try harder.

I've only got a big girl's blouse.

I know what you mean though, it's a jungle here, just harden the fuck up and try not to be so emo.

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Big girls’ blouses are the correct TV/TS equivalent, ma’am.

As you say: harden the fuck up.

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By *plodge789Man
3 weeks ago

Worcestershire

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By *argoMan
3 weeks ago

East Southampton

You can make any old email address up, there is no verification of that email that you need to use to complete the registration.

And that is the trouble.

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