FabGuys.com forum: Who likes the word "Bumming"?

By *uvcok400 OP Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly county

Don't hear it so much now it's all "fucking" but bumming is a hornier word i think and takes me back to younger days.

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By *jeeMan
over a year ago

East London

Yeah love gettin bummed and bein told by the top that he's gonna bum me.

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By *eedsmaleMan
over a year ago

leeds

I just laugh when I hear it. It's what we said when we were 10!

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By *irstMan...Man
over a year ago

North Belfast

Bumming normally means 'to beg' (or 'begging') here - so would never use it the way the OP does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase "bumming a fag" can have have two very different meanings

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Not heard this since my school days

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By *anintrousersMan
over a year ago

Widnes

You don't really hear it much nowadays it's more a term that straight guys use when referring to anal sex

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By *ockhandlerMan
over a year ago

sawbridgeworth

In my youth bummer and bumming referred exclusively to homosexuals so I prefer it to the term fucking.

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By *os001Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Bit outdated really!

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By *ameyCoolMan
over a year ago

West Byfleet. Woking,

Much nicer term than fucking

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By *uvcok400 OP Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly county

Its more horny isnt it,love your bumming pics.

Remember when you were bummed first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to love it, don't hear it used much nowadays.

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By *uvcok400 OP Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly county

Love to bum you in those pink panties

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By *976BeardedManMan
3 weeks ago

Essex / London

I do

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By *aremanMan
3 weeks ago

Hingham

"Buggering" has a more physical feel.

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By *eorgesdadMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

Bumming, is a good old fashioned expression, I also like Buggering and Sodomising

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By *eedsguyforfunMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

My mates and I all use it. “Did you get bummed at the weekend?”

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By *amplighter1Man
3 weeks ago

ryde

Loved that Frase back in the day awell as doing it

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By *ickSeekerMan
3 weeks ago

Canterbury

It's a much nicer term than f*****g. I only heard it for the first time about five years ago

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By *arydeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Staffs

Oh I do love a good bumming

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By *yleLMan
3 weeks ago

Burnley

"Don't hear it so much now it's all "fucking" but bumming is a hornier word i think and takes me back to younger days."

Hated the word/phrase 40 years ago and my mind has not changed today.

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By *avid1066Man
3 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Don't mind it X I like when a guy tells me he's going to bum me

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By *acingfanMan
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I like to bum a sexy guy.

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By *obbertMan
3 weeks ago

In a world of my own

Bumming, bummer and bugger all are words that make me smile when I hear them now, of an age when gay sex was sniggered or frowned upon!

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By *artlepool 321Man
3 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Love to get bummed

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By *luerooMan
3 weeks ago

bridgwater

seventies school days bumming and bummer everyday terms

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By *evanianMan
3 weeks ago

Sir y Fflint - Gogledd Cymru

The word "bumming" now has a dated sound, it does sound a tad comedic in modern-day parlance, although I think it does have a certain charm.

A quick search reveals that "Bumming" as a vulgarity for anal sex likely comes from the words "bugger" and "bum". "Bugger" originally referred to the Bogomil, a medieval Eastern European sect deemed heretical by the Catholic Church and who were maliciously dubbed as "sodomites" in an attempt to discredit them. The French term "bougre" was used for this group, and over time, "bugger" took on a different meaning in English. These days, "bugger" is more commonly used, and "bumming" sounds a bit old-fashioned. The word's evolution says a lot about how attitudes have changed over time.

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By *orcester GuyMan
3 weeks ago

Worcestershire North

Wasn’t it a term used for dry humping back in the 70s & 80s

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By *etmepants offMan
3 weeks ago

dartford

I prefer the term bummed, or buggered to fucked. Must be my age

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By *DickloverMan
3 weeks ago

visiting

Dont mind the word but prefer the sction better whst ever you call it

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By *ature164Man
3 weeks ago

Watford

Love the words Bummed Buggared and Sodomised

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

Sounds like the 60's all over again

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By *utcock61Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Always bum my fuckbud hard.

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By *cr MannixMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Bumming sits alongside other words and phrase not heard so much nowadays, such as 'he bats for the other side', puff or iron hoof, and nancy boy. Then there were more explicit phrases such as shirt lifter, shit stabber or fudge packer. Any more?

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By *emmaDarlingTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

There's something naughty about the word bumming which I quite like

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By *ldmanMan
3 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

Yes, it was my "go to" word for decades.

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By *ucatiladMan
3 weeks ago

North Somerset

No, I'm not a great fan of the expression.

My father used to refer to me as a "bum boy", and if he was feeling particularly under the influence would introduce me to others as "this is N.... the families bum boy".

So no, not sad it's fallen out of use.

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By *iker888Man
3 weeks ago

derbyshire

I’d like to try being bummed

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By *heffbagMan
3 weeks ago

Rotherhsm

Brings back happy memories

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By *ingslynnMan
3 weeks ago

Grantham

I do like having that said to me

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Sounds good in the right context

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By *ayd100Man
3 weeks ago

bb7

Been bummed a few times

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By *agedSubSlutMan
3 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I can never hear it

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By *tevejbMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Nowt wrong with the word fucking - nice and explicit. Bumming is fine but may not always mean penetration. Can just be a nice groin thrust against ones bum. I like both.

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By *elfordsubMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

I don’t use it and while don't necessarily dislike it, it's a bit of a silly word and very childish.

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By *imale300Man
3 weeks ago

Emley

Love hearing it said

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

barton

Haven't heard that word in years

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

Not offended by it but does seem a little outdated, like 1970s outdated.

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By *imPig1981Man
3 weeks ago

Maesteg

No.

Because I'm a grown up and don't use playground slang.

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By *ocklover1456Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

I like to use it enjoy being bummed x

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By *etstalkMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"No.

Because I'm a grown up and don't use playground slang. "

I just came to say something similar.

“Bumming” reminds me of my adolescence … not literally - just the term haha

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By *ave6912Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

Just reminds me of a time when I had no idea what the word meant

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford

11 year olds probably do.

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By *enry77Man
3 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

"11 year olds probably do."

I was about that when me and my mate tried bumming each other. No other word describes what we were doing

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By *edmdMan
3 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

Nothing wrong with bumming term

Everybody knows what it means x

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By *ennthebigMan
3 weeks ago

Erdington

I want to bum someone

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By *uckmeslow555Man
3 weeks ago

oakham

Not bummed anyone for a while

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Quite like the term bumming. Has an almost naughty sound about it

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By *hubbyman10Man
3 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Don't dislike the term, it is just from a bygone age

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By *enry77Man
3 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

I love those memories in the age of innocence

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By *laingreedyMan
3 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I prefer the action 😉😳

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By *ubmanpaulMan
3 weeks ago

near ripon

Love it love hearing a guy telling me he’s going to bum me

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By *ubmanpaulMan
3 weeks ago

near ripon

Love it love hearing a guy telling me he’s going to bum me

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By *eginer96Man
3 weeks ago

Kildare, Naas, Newbridge

Yeah definitely it's sounds sexy when my top describes how we going to play. You on your knees suck me but then I turn you around and bump you. Wow simply sexy

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By *iguy50sMan
3 weeks ago

Woking

Fancy a bum? Classic!

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By *aggonerMan
3 weeks ago

Malvern

And Bum Boy.

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By *ust.frankMan
3 weeks ago

Blackpool

Love bumming

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By *ngel777Man
3 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Love some bumming x

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By *gbaMan
3 weeks ago

Dewsbury

I like the term, use it quite often.

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By *lueoscarMan
3 weeks ago

alfreton/chesterfield

I quite like Rogering or being Rogered

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By *0thirtyMan
3 weeks ago

Redhill

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By *0thirtyMan
3 weeks ago

Redhill

I’d love to receive a right good BUMMING !

It’s rarer than unicorns these days !

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