FabGuys.com forum: Affairs with married men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who like the idea of this? I meet a married man sometimes at his place and getting naked and kissing and making love like a couple having an affair is unbelievably hot, just wondered how other guys find it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner and I LOVE the idea of a guy coming over and making love to me in our bed.

Passionate sensual lovemaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely…I’m no longer interested in notches on the bed post would like a long term fwb and an “affair” is probably the correct label

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By *anbrentMan
over a year ago

around

I love married men, the thought of sucking them better than their misses and having them enjoy the ride fully is very hot...especially if they do you in their bed...unfortunately rarely free when I'm free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it’s so much more sensual and intense than a quick meet and feels lovely

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By *damslandMan
over a year ago

chorley

^ wrong’uns ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it’s so much more sensual and intense than a quick meet and feels lovely"

Yeah

I just really want to be made love too by a guy tbh

Not just fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married here and wanting a man as a regular partner to make me his "girl."

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By *ussexMan
over a year ago

7dials brighton

I like to be the forbidden fruit

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By *aveLondon2Man
over a year ago

nearby

count me in…

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

Seaton

Been seeing a mm for nearly 20 years , didn’t know his real name for the first 5! In the brief moments we have , the world and everything in it is just as it should be. Being with him is just one long orgasm , the feeling of being alive is indescribable , the sex is off the scale and I do things for him that I would never do for anyone else …. My heart silently breaks as he leaves and just as silently mends when I open the door and see him standing there , though he uses the “L” word , the one time I used it he vanished fir 6 months …. My biggest fear ? That one of us dies , without ever knowing .

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That must be so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that. "

Or alternatively gay guys are adults who know what they are getting into when getting involved with a bi or taken guy and don't need defending or offence taking on there behalfs

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By *ndyBristolMan
over a year ago

Keynsham

I meet a couple of married men on here now and again for sex, I wouldn't call it an affair.

I like it as they go back to their wives and I then have my own space.

I also like the thought of sucking a cock that has recently been inside a woman.

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By *ustOneBearMan
over a year ago

Neath

I had an affair with a married man. Three months in I admit I fell hard for him and I told him. I knew I was a fool and he’d always go back to his wife. I didn’t mean it to happen. He was just my ideal man.

Turns out he felt the same way Two months later we moved in together. . We married four years later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had an affair with a married man. Three months in I admit I fell hard for him and I told him. I knew I was a fool and he’d always go back to his wife. I didn’t mean it to happen. He was just my ideal man.

Turns out he felt the same way Two months later we moved in together. . We married four years later. "

That’s awesome congrats!

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By *0yguyMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

Turns out he felt the same way Two months later we moved in together. . We married four years later. "

I’m pleased for you both. You look very happy together.

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By *ustOneBearMan
over a year ago

Neath

" That’s awesome congrats!"
thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a affair with a married man for years

Strange thing is he left his wife but not for me another guy

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By *ustOneBearMan
over a year ago

Neath

"I I’m pleased for you both. You look very happy together."

Thank you. We are are very having a great time.

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By *tewart62Man
over a year ago

Near Leeds

Turns out he felt the same way Two months later we moved in together. . We married four years later. "

That’s so good

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By *luttysissy666Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Im talking to a married guy right now about doing this very thing. Geography is the problem

There are reasons I can stay over near him. Just not often enough. Hes so fit, and Ive been after a guy like him for ages. Fingers x

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By *appunMan
over a year ago

london

Does it have to be married to a woman? Or to a man is ok too?

I mean is it the usual ‘straight’ thing, or the fact he is taken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it have to be married to a woman? Or to a man is ok too?

I mean is it the usual ‘straight’ thing, or the fact he is taken. "

For me it’s not about the cheating, I get that’s not morally great, it’s more the sexiness of two otherwise straight guys getting it on together, the contrast and the naughtiness x

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By *ukin84Man
over a year ago

visiting Torremolinos

Love blowing bi married and partnered lads

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By *wam67Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Turns me on secret fun with a guy kissin touchin getting my cock sucked good in his bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done this and it turned out bad the wife found out and called me when she found my number on the phone bill.

I said I was a work colleague. She didn't fall for it.

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By *ondon RimmerMan
over a year ago

Islington

An occasional FB is one thing but affair? You must be joking. Sneaking around, being unable to contact the other person freely, limited opportunities to meet - no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually that's exactly what I'm looking for. Married men know what they want,nsa ,discreet fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont lead they guy on though if you do want a fling or it can all end in tears, one married guy told a friend of mine a load of lies that he would leave his wife, my friend got d*unk and put pictures all over Facebook and sent them to his friends and told his wife. Was a lot of drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re a married couple and I love sharing my fella with other guys, not for affairs or emotional connections thats a HUGE no… but for sex? Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that. "
You clearly have a skewed concept of bisexuality.

I agree some just want sex with other guys, but

Biseuxal guys can and do have loving relationships with men.

Bisexuality is a broad church and there is no reason why a gay guy and a bi guy can't form a longstanding committed relationship

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

An affair hints at love, so be prepared to spend your birthdays and Christmases without him if it goes that way.

You'll be lucky to get one night with him a year.

You're just the 'side piece' unless he leaves her.

It's all mainly stacked in their favour.

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

I really want a passionate love making session with a man too x

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"An occasional FB is one thing but affair? You must be joking. Sneaking around, being unable to contact the other person freely, limited opportunities to meet - no way."

I agree, who would put up with that?

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
over a year ago

longeaton ng10

I'd like to find a cute young guy for fun.

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By *ukin84Man
over a year ago

visiting Torremolinos

"Turns me on secret fun with a guy kissin touchin getting my cock sucked good in his bed"
my type of lads to service

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

I had an affair for nearly ten years with a married guy until he was promoted & took a new role in overseas. He was married with three kids but we just clicked & had some lovely times together. There is something very nice about seeing someone on a regular basis & sharing things together.

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By *iMarkGregCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Angel, London

Mark and I are both married men with wives who we still love . We’ve been having an affair with each other for nearly five years, having met on Fab.

We are Exclusive although on the rare occasion of having a threesum. Its pure love and passion when we meet, mainly in Hotels for the day. We spend hours kissing, touching, licking and flip flop fucking each other. We completely trust each other in terms of hygiene and thorough douching.

We’ve also pushed our boundaries to try things we would never have contemplated if we had just met with random people. We can BB and suck each others cocks after being fucked, we ve slowly been able to fist each other and even tried felching.

We live 100 miles apart but still arrange to meet once every 4-6 weeks and have managed some one overnight stays. We text each other everyday. We are very very lucky.

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By *ottom4444Man
over a year ago

Near Haverhill

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that.

Or alternatively gay guys are adults who know what they are getting into when getting involved with a bi or taken guy and don't need defending or offence taking on there behalfs "

Exactly! Well said! Not all gay guys are looking for love, certainly not on here. And not all bi guys are cheating on a partner.

We’re all grown ups who can make decisions for ourselves as to what we do and don’t do.

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By *eignSceneMan
over a year ago

South Devon

I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

Serious question; are you fucking other men because you married a woman to cover up being a fag, or doesn’t she give you anything so you have no choice but to seek out men because we’ll do what your wife won’t? What is your reason…

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons?

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By *ottom4444Man
over a year ago

Near Haverhill

"I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons? "

Fag? Puff? What century are you living in?

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons? "

I think it's called over compensating.

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By *q oralistMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I have sucked cock for married guys who are not getting oral from their wives. The only trouble is their availability is so limited

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By *aymarketMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm a married guy myself and I enjoy playing with other married guys. Married are the most discreet and just want nsa fun, not looking for love. Also I get an extra thrill from sucking a married cock knowing it's been up a wife's pussy.

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By *eignSceneMan
over a year ago

South Devon

"I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons?

Fag? Puff? What century are you living in? "

Obviously, the sarcasm in the written word was missed by you, and that is okay.

I was thinking back to when I was young and yes, those terms were used. Often, by ‘happily married men’ who would often rock up at gay meeting haunts.

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By *likhan200Man
over a year ago

West midlands

Wow. Thats amazing

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By *nalAngelTV/TS
over a year ago

Droitwich, WORCS

I would love another affair with married woman again, it was great fun fucking in her bed while her husband was at work, and her kids were at school, and with him not knowing anything about it.

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By *rankLMan
over a year ago

birdhill

I love married men. I’m married. I love that we want intimacy and great sex. I feel so lucky to have found my bi side. I see another married guy regularly and being naked with him is so natural. He was the first man to kiss me. I can’t describe how that kiss felt but I felt it all over my body. To watch him cumming on my body is so beautiful, the warmth of his cum the joy on his face as he ejaculates, the way he lies beside me after cumming as he kisses me and strokes me so natural so beautiful. I really try to avoid sex with my wife now and save my cum for gay porn and married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love another affair with married woman again, it was great fun fucking in her bed while her husband was at work, and her kids were at school, and with him not knowing anything about it.

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did you fuck her as a tv??? Hot!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love married men, have had two affairs with older married blokes, I like to do the dirty things there wives wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An affair hints at love, so be prepared to spend your birthdays and Christmases without him if it goes that way.

You'll be lucky to get one night with him a year.

You're just the 'side piece' unless he leaves her.

It's all mainly stacked in their favour."
but arent all affairs like that??

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By *nalAngelTV/TS
over a year ago

Droitwich, WORCS

"I would love another affair with married woman again, it was great fun fucking in her bed while her husband was at work, and her kids were at school, and with him not knowing anything about it.

did you fuck her as a tv??? Hot!!!!"

Yes Lisa many times

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By *imbob2021Man
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Does it actually really matter or make the sex any hornier knowing they are married or partnered with a woman living a straight lifestyle and your one of there dirty secrets?

Dont give it the slightest of thoughts. Thier a tree in a forests and i've an itchy back and they are closets point to itch on!

I get my kicks from that im out in my van in a trolling ground

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By *orkychopperMan
over a year ago

Truro

A lot of gay guys just love the fact I’m married and on the surface live a straight life

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that. "

Utter tripe. I’m fully bi & some of my closest friends are people I’ve met in saunas & yes from on here. Trans, bi, Wed, CDs etc.

Don’t judge everyone by your own miserable experience.

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By *imbob2021Man
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"A lot of gay guys just love the fact I’m married and on the surface live a straight life "

Monkeys use tools to get food, we aren't that different

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Wells

I'm not looking to attract married guys but a few seem attracted to me.

I don't usually find out they're married until they've shot their load then they utter dreaded words "sorry I have to go, the missus will wonder where I am"

I don't fancy an affair either, variety is the spice of life for me.

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By *triker.xMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I meet a straight married guy for cock teasing, edging and sucking quite often, usually when his wife is out.

If there is a long gap between visits he gets so excited telling me he has missed me so much.

He has been here at least 20 times and it's a bit like an "affair in a way. But it's not really.

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By *imbob2021Man
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that.

Utter tripe. I’m fully bi & some of my closest friends are people I’ve met in saunas & yes from on here. Trans, bi, Wed, CDs etc.

Don’t judge everyone by your own miserable experience.

Some people cant see past there own fuck ups and tar every one with that lable as the same. Thousands of years of evolution and some humans still cant see past there own egos and bad experiences.

My fb is a married to a man but didnt give it the slightest of thoughts until now. I respect he has a relationship with another, in fact he is open and shags around like a social butterfly and when we meet up eat drink and fuck for a few days. He goes off does his dance card ends back home and the cycle begins again. He is a mate i have a great laugh with that we fuck good too and can mix sex friendship and a level of intermacy between us that will only ever be that.

Best shag i have ever had, is he the love of my life because he makes me glow like a buttercup when hes underneath me?

Fuck no.

Peoples exceptations oftern dont meet up with what they get in reality.

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that.

Utter tripe. I’m fully bi & some of my closest friends are people I’ve met in saunas & yes from on here. Trans, bi, Wed, CDs etc.

Don’t judge everyone by your own miserable experience.

Some people cant see past there own fuck ups and tar every one with that lable as the same. Thousands of years of evolution and some humans still cant see past there own egos and bad experiences.

Best shag i have ever had, is he the love of my life because he makes me glow like a buttercup when hes underneath me?

Fuck no.

Peoples exceptations oftern dont meet up with what they get in reality."

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By *istable arseMan
over a year ago

kings lynn near QEH

I like married men, like myself, as they are generally aware of discretion but totally up for fun and prepared to break the kink rules..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im married n didcrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really had an affair but find most on here are married.... when they fuck me doggy in my hold ups suppose it's like fucking the wife.

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By *rMagicFingersMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Fag? Puff? What century are you living in?

Obviously, the sarcasm in the written word was missed by you, and that is okay.

I was thinking back to when I was young and yes, those terms were used. Often, by ‘happily married men’ who would often rock up at gay meeting haunts.

Think you need to work on your 'sarcasm'.

And just because fag and 'puff' were used when you were young doesn't mean they're acceptable today.

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Fag? Puff? What century are you living in?

Obviously, the sarcasm in the written word was missed by you, and that is okay.

I was thinking back to when I was young and yes, those terms were used. Often, by ‘happily married men’ who would often rock up at gay meeting haunts.

Think you need to work on your 'sarcasm'.

And just because fag and 'puff' were used when you were young doesn't mean they're acceptable today."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married here, discreet, on here looking for my first anal seeing too!

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By *ux in BucksMan
over a year ago

Buckingham/Maids Moreton

I have had a couple of affairs with married men. It was nice when they contacted me for 2 reasons. I really liked them and wanted to be with them and I was happy to be their sexual release.

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By *westMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'd love an affair with someone who wanted a married man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married here and wanting a man as a regular partner to make me his "girl.""

You want him to pay for your surgery??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, my conscience wouldn't allow it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love married, horny guys. From experience unhibited sex,nsa,good laugh and sometimes pint. On the hunt for one or two or....

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Does it have to be married to a woman? Or to a man is ok too?

I mean is it the usual ‘straight’ thing, or the fact he is taken. "

Bit of both, but mainly the usual 'straight' thing.

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By *ubbledude2001Man
over a year ago

Limerick

I love sleeping with married men

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"An occasional FB is one thing but affair? You must be joking. Sneaking around, being unable to contact the other person freely, limited opportunities to meet - no way."

People in love put up with all kinds of shit.

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By *eavitreeAnonMan
over a year ago

Heavitree, Exeter

I love the idea of it but TBH sometimes it gets a bit dicey.

Had a few meets with a married guy a couple years ago and after just two or three meets when we had some Speedos fun, he was talking about divorcing his wife and leaving his kids so he could shack up with me for a daily swimming trunks wank.

He was dead serious about it to. Had to ghost him after that.

Never really gone back to married guys since, which is a shame, but I wouldn't wanna be in that situation again

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By *kigaiMan
over a year ago

Northampton

There seems to be two diffrent spheres operating here. Guys who have sex and/or relationships with guys who happen to be married and guys who almist fetishise married men i.e. have sex with guys (or fantasise about it) solely because they are married.

There is also a widespread assumption that 'married' is to a woman.

I had a very passionate and kinky relationship with a guy who I knew wanted to settle down with a guy and get married. A few years in he met 'the one' and they were married very quickly.

A year later he came back to me. He loved his husband but had sexual needs his husband either couldn't or wouldn't fulfill. We embarked on part 2 for a couple years. Covid arrived and upset the equilibrium. He took a job abroad, husband went with him.

For a while he would whatsapp me to help him orgasm but then we had an acrimonious break up which seemed 'staged' to me. I haven't seen him since. Wouldn't change a second of what we had though.

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By *enardeMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons?

Fag? Puff? What century are you living in? "

Got to agree I thought his views were harsh and arrogant and not necessary to word in such a way

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By *isub1973Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I'd love a regular Fwb to have an affair with, would be lovely finding someone I click with and be able to spend time in bed with!

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By *orchlightMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

I wouldn’t say no to a Bromance with the right guy : )

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By *hunter001Man
over a year ago

Skipton

"Who like the idea of this? I meet a married man sometimes at his place and getting naked and kissing and making love like a couple having an affair is unbelievably hot, just wondered how other guys find it! X"
I had affair with Married guy at his Place once a week in Halifax while his Mrs was at work Full kissing,Rimming,fucking,Sucking and drinking his pee Went on for 5 years till she gave up work due accident while crossing road only yard away from home then he became full time carrier for his wife .Not found anyone regular or like him since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not married but do have a long term girlfriend. However I would love to find a cd or tv to have a discreet passionate ongoing relationship with. Just something more meaningful than sex meets where lust and cravings and desire are important. I know I may be judged for wanting this, but it is how I feel.

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By *anDadBodMan
over a year ago

Speke

Us married guys do seem to be a kink for quite a few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it for 10 years.

The sex can be exciting but in reality you’ll always be the bit on the side.

Never going to be an equal.

If that’s a kink then great.

But it’s a pretty shallow existence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me! Please !

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By *0tterMan
over a year ago

Grange-over-Sands

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being the bit in the side or doing for the guy what he is missing at hoME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer

Married men as they are in the same boat as me and understand the need for discretion

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By *nthony 500Man
over a year ago

north Manchester area

Discretion is the name of the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have meet a few married guys

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By *usan jonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By *usan jonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don’t mind being his bit on the side xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer meeting married men, feels naughty and exciting

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By *mcmwMan
over a year ago

Berwick Upon Tweed

Turns out he felt the same way Two months later we moved in together. . We married four years later. "

Well you look made for each other …. Glad you showed the married guy the way into the light! Well on a permanent basis as it appears he was trying hard to do it himself! Now your both the married men!

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By *Vbi47Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I personally prefer gay men

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By *ingbongMan
over a year ago

hull

I would definitely consider it

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Prefer meeting married men, feels naughty and exciting"

And your profile says you're married yourself, so that would make sense.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Did it for 10 years.

The sex can be exciting but in reality you’ll always be the bit on the side.

Never going to be an equal.

If that’s a kink then great.

But it’s a pretty shallow existence. "

If it's just sex then it's fine, a kind of 'mutual using' of each other and I do get the naughty thrill of it all, but if you get feelings for each other then have a serious conversation or call it quits.

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By *ood-guyMan
over a year ago

wild, wild west

What if you’re a married guy having an affair with another married guy? Are you both just a bit on the side? Does that make it better / equal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all very well having an affair with married men but if their wives find out they will soon be single unless the wife knows about it before hand. There was a case some years ago where a married man was fucking his secret toy boy and the married man was paying toy boy £50 a time, however toy boy wanted £100. Then £200. Than £300. The married man was now being put under a lot of stress by toy boy so he killed toy boy and jailed for life. So not without its risk.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

Seaton

"It’s all very well having an affair with married men but if their wives find out they will soon be single unless the wife knows about it before hand. There was a case some years ago where a married man was fucking his secret toy boy and the married man was paying toy boy £50 a time, however toy boy wanted £100. Then £200. Than £300. The married man was now being put under a lot of stress by toy boy so he killed toy boy and jailed for life. So not without its risk. "

I’d have killed the wife ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper fantasy of mine

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By *onstant.Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm married love having cock to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re: my last it wasn’t jailed for life.

Killer of rent boy gets 8 years

Just found case on Google in kent.

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By *asper109Man
over a year ago

Johnstone

"What if you’re a married guy having an affair with another married guy? Are you both just a bit on the side? Does that make it better / equal?"

I was told a while back that if married to only go with guys with as much to loose as yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love this as being the married man. A regular guy who we go out in public with as "mates" but secretly go off and have sex

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By *ick.LuvittMan
over a year ago

travel

Na… I make love to my partner.. For me you can only make love when you have feelings for someone…

For me meets are meets and just (good hopefully) sex.. even though having regular can be good for me it’s not making love… an affair though is more like relationship so guess feelings could develop..

Each to their own tho

And yea before the knockers respond she knows and approves.. sometimes joins on

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By *azadarMan
over a year ago

North Birmingham

Not my cup of tea.

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By *ickeMan
over a year ago

watford

"I couldn’t care less if a bloke is married. If they wanna cheat on their wives, it is their choice. It does surprise me how many men are shagging other men behind their woman’s back though.

There are so many posts here on sniffing girl pants and lasses in general, it’s cringe. It’s like you are on a puff site, but you gotta speak about birds ‘cause you know, not gay really.

Are there other reasons? "

Being bisexual give you a clue to why guys do it . They like men and women

Marry women for many reasons but still want a male in their life’s .

As for cheating I can honestly say not met many married guys or their wife’s who not stayed at some point in relationship.

Maybe that’s why divorce rate so high

Just a thought

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By *urious187Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I am a married man. But I love it when I get the chance to have fun with a guy.It would be great to find someone to be as regular as it allows as I am not looking to meet loads of different guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[]I am a married man. But I love it when I get the chance to have fun with a guy.It would be great to find someone to be as regular as it allows as I am not looking to meet loads of different guy's.

[same as you)

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By *urious187Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"[]I am a married man. But I love it when I get the chance to have fun with a guy.It would be great to find someone to be as regular as it allows as I am not looking to meet loads of different guy's.

[same as you) "

It is a hard thing to find.

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By *ood-guyMan
over a year ago

wild, wild west

"[]I am a married man. But I love it when I get the chance to have fun with a guy.It would be great to find someone to be as regular as it allows as I am not looking to meet loads of different guy's.

[same as you)

It is a hard thing to find."

But NOT impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used finger a guys ass and suck him until he cum in my mouth,

He wouldn't fuck me though.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Very true, they message and expect you to be free there and then just because they've got the horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in a relationship but meet other secretly. I’ve met loads of guys both married or in relationships with men or women.

I find it a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been having sex with a guy for 17 years who is married to a lady, we've never spoke about it, I just get turned on being his secret xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy who used to love fucking me in the bed I shared with the gf. He loved leaving some of his cum on the sheets knowing she would be in there later

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By *4 fitTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

I luv married guys mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would love an affair with a guy

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By *elcumMan
over a year ago

DEAL area

i met a guy in a gay sauna when i lived in exeter.

even tho it was dark in the actual sauna, we both clocked each other and he followed me upstairs and i grabbed his towel and lead him into a booth where we had the most mindblowing sex.

afterwards, when i was changed and leaving, he came up to me and said "i NEVER do this but this is my card. i am married, to a woman but if you would like to meet again i would love that."

as it turned out, he was down in my part of the world every two weeks to visit his mother and so he would turn up at mine and it was like we had our own oasis. as soon as he came into the cottage, the rest of the world got shut out and it was just us. he was kind, attentive, handsome, upbeat and had a body to die for ... and the calibre of the sex that we both had was on a whole other level.

after nearly two years, his wife was going away for a long weekend and so he came to stay .... it was bliss going to sleep with my head on "my man's chest" .... and we made out three times in the evening and then first thing in the morning.

at breakfast and after, he was very quiet. i wondered what he was processing but did not say or ask as i figured he would say if he felt like he needed to. i was quite happy basking in the "honeymoon" feeling.

a couple of days later he phoned me and said that he was totally shaken up as what he experienced when we were together was what he knew he truly wanted ... but that his wife was also his closest friend and that he "couldn't do that to her".

so that was it.

i am not out but i would have totally come out for this guy. he was my ideal man and made me realise that this was what i was looking for.

he tried to contact me about a year after but i blocked him. once that decision has been made i don't go back.

grateful for the experience tho. that's for sure.

(sigh)

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By *wam67Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm in relationship with a woman but love going to married mens home and having secret fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a married man

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By *urriousBiMan
over a year ago

SE London

"i met a guy in a gay sauna when i lived in exeter.

even tho it was dark in the actual sauna, we both clocked each other and he followed me upstairs and i grabbed his towel and lead him into a booth where we had the most mindblowing sex.

afterwards, when i was changed and leaving, he came up to me and said "i NEVER do this but this is my card. i am married, to a woman but if you would like to meet again i would love that."

so that was it.

i am not out but i would have totally come out for this guy. he was my ideal man and made me realise that this was what i was looking for.

he tried to contact me about a year after but i blocked him. once that decision has been made i don't go back.

grateful for the experience tho. that's for sure.

(sigh) "

This is a very sad story

Personally, I don’t want knowingly be involved with married guys. I don’t want to be part of any potential mess in someone’s life. And secondly - it’s way to hard to arrange meet with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly most of my sex life is with married men. Most of my regulars are married too.

I give them something they need, usually an arse to fuck haha they give me what I need. I choose not to think about it passed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mark and I are both married men with wives who we still love . We’ve been having an affair with each other for nearly five years, having met on Fab.

We live 100 miles apart but still arrange to meet once every 4-6 weeks and have managed some one overnight stays. We text each other everyday. We are very very lucky. "

Sounds amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love meeting married guys, always have great fun with them! Going to theirs or being in the car, plenty of kissing and sucking them off all they like, very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am divorced, habe a female partner and meet guys for nsa fun.

For one I am not seeking a relationship, I simply enjoy sucking cock and being fucked, I wouldn't want a relationship with a guy, it's just sex. Although I would consider having a relationship with a trans woman, so go fiqure!

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By *ukin84Man
over a year ago

visiting Torremolinos

My mates are all married lads that just want uncomplicated cock sucked fun

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By *FellaSouthWestMan
over a year ago

London S W / S E

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By *FellaSouthWestMan
over a year ago

London S W / S E

"Sad to hear that some gay guys, allow themselves to be used and controlled by bi guys.

Gay guys obviously look for love from a guy.

Bi guys don't, they treat a guy just as badly as they do their partner. Always remember that.

Or alternatively gay guys are adults who know what they are getting into when getting involved with a bi or taken guy and don't need defending or offence taking on there behalfs "

Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

That’s very moving similar to how I feel about someone. Our bodies just fit and sex is intuitive with him, more than many selfish quickies and certainly more than at home. He doesn’t know I feel this way really and scared he’d run a mile. He makes me feel more than just satisfied. I’d like a full on affair I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I wouldn't see no reason not I'm a married man had affairs with women...mso why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Have to admit I married my wife to hide the fact I'm a faggot, after all these years she still doesn't know my secret and I regularly go out cruising looking to be used as a gurl in whatever way the man wants

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By *umquakeMan
33 weeks ago

Boston

I much prefer married and not out guys.

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By *ot older guyTV/TS
33 weeks ago

bradninch

"Fag? Puff? What century are you living in?

Obviously, the sarcasm in the written word was missed by you, and that is okay.

I was thinking back to when I was young and yes, those terms were used. Often, by ‘happily married men’ who would often rock up at gay meeting haunts.

Think you need to work on your 'sarcasm'.

And just because fag and 'puff' were used when you were young doesn't mean they're acceptable today."

Any thing is acceptable today,its just words,like it was years ago,stop taking yourself bloody seriously

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By *IPMANMan
33 weeks ago

West London

If he will lie to his wife, do you think he will tell you the truth.... just saying

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By *IPMANMan
33 weeks ago

West London

Derogatory terms like fag and puff depends who uses them. I have no qualms about calling my gay friends such terms...but I refuse to accept it from non gays

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By *adbod22Man
33 weeks ago

Birmingham

Married here. Not getting any at home, so looking for a young Top guy in Birmingham for regular meets for mutual fun and a rewarding friendship. Anything more is a bonus!!!

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By *unglincolnimpMan
33 weeks ago

Lincoln

I regularly hook up with a married man who I play footy with and it is perfect for me as he will never tell anyone or get too serious and there is the thrill of being with him knowing what we get up to.

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By *zaac CoxMan
33 weeks ago

FOREST OF DEAN

Married bisexual man here likes horny meets with other married men

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By *ottomguy8919Man
33 weeks ago

Thetford

I suppose there is one thing though, having affairs with men means you don't have to worry about pregnancy lol

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By *erscumdumpMan
33 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

At least 2 local married men are regularly fucking me more than they fuck their Mrs. We're both getting what we need out of it so no harm.

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By *ral nowMan
33 weeks ago

hartlepool

This is what I'd prefer, regular with no issues

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By *ackTooMan
32 weeks ago

(Near) Accrington

"Been seeing a mm for nearly 20 years , didn’t know his real name for the first 5! In the brief moments we have , the world and everything in it is just as it should be. Being with him is just one long orgasm , the feeling of being alive is indescribable , the sex is off the scale and I do things for him that I would never do for anyone else …. My heart silently breaks as he leaves and just as silently mends when I open the door and see him standing there , though he uses the “L” word , the one time I used it he vanished fir 6 months …. My biggest fear ? That one of us dies , without ever knowing .

The ability to lay down your emotions so fantastically well and so succinctly is indescribably beautiful and yet, your situation is so sad. My heart breaks for you. Cherish the time together and live in hope, but not in any expectation.

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By *mbroMan
5 days ago

melbourne

Honestly this is kinda my fantasy, I’d love to be a married man’s secret lover

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By *astDevonGuyMan
5 days ago

Seaton

A married lover is great , until you start to love him ……

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By *otsure03Man
5 days ago

witney

I’m married and looking for someone to fill my hole

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
5 days ago

kent

Not for us…. Met a guy once and when we got to his house there were pics of his wife and children all over. Didn’t leave a nice impression, we left very quickly!

No judgement on the guys… we all have our preferences!

I’m sure we’ve been with married guys in saunas not knowing….

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 days ago

Neath

My situation has changed since I last posted on this thread.

I’m seeing a married man regularly, it is nice but frustrating when we can’t meet. So the best situation would be a few regulars. That way we all get the benefit.

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By *heshguy2024Man
5 days ago

Widnes / Runcorn

Would absolutely love to have a guy / couple to meet on a regular basis x

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By *actilePigMan
5 days ago

LINCOLN

A few of my regulars are married and not out to their wives. Always a bit tricky when I bump into them with their families in town, as I instinctively want to smile and say hello, but am always the height of discretion and just ignore them.

I fuck one married guy in his marital bed while his wife is at work, and have recently started putting his wedding picture, which resides on the bedside table, face down when I fuck him. I was finding it off putting.

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By *istable arseMan
4 days ago

kings lynn near QEH

Married and often it's other married I play with, have now some amazing friends through it, none of us are out but do say hello if crossing paths in town. Sad it's all hidden but we all appreciate the worth of both sides of life.

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By *dfunMan
4 days ago

west Sussex

I love sucking of my married men and rimming themand giving them pleasure and enjoying their cock. allowing them to relax and play their fantasies

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
4 days ago

barton

I actually prefer married or divorced men as they know how to be around a gurl

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