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By *ristingle OP   Man
over a year ago

London

If you are on both sites did you join simultaneously or just the one and then ended up joining the other?

Apologies if this is a similar theme to other threads posted or has been asked before. It’s difficult sometimes to be original with so many new posts being put up each day!

If you are on both sites would you say you spend more time on this site and find it a better platform for what you require or that there’s no difference?

I joined Fabswingers a few years ago searching for women. I ended up looking at CDs/TV profiles and had a couple of meets enjoying them immensely before starting to take an increasing interest in guys. At that point I joined this site.

I really enjoy the experience and I’d say, although still a Fabswingers member, I spend most of my time on here and have found it a great site. I don’t take an active interest in women now and I am calm and comfortable with that state of being realising that (if we use labels (yeah I know another controversial forum debate) that I have obviously always not been straight, although in a straight relationship and not out (probably wrong I know).

So my experience is exclusively Fabguys now and I have moved right along the spectrum as the site has helped evolve a dormant sexuality. So thanks guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their lost our gain!

Love your photos

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By *ristingle OP   Man
over a year ago

London

That’s very kind of you to say

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By *SBI777Man
over a year ago

Harringay

I joined Fabswingers not long after I just joined Fabguys, after asking on the forum if there was a similar site for meeting women. I've only ever met two women on there but quite a few guys. Find women rarely respond and when they do its just to be snarky. Both sites are a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Tried fabswingers but confused me. Had “straight” guys wanting to meet, or more so fantasising and people not turning up.

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By *assist88Man
over a year ago

Castle Donington

I was on fabswingers first. Met a few couples and guys. I found fabguys after and use it much more now. I prefer guys for nsa anyway and only use Swingers for couples. Women are in too high a demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On both

Harder to get a meet on FS

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By *heStroppySpunkyOneMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I didn’t like FS, too many sensitive wankers on their Forum. Women Begging for Fabs on pictures, and the overall quality of people in the local area is extremely poor.

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By *ardiffchatMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m on both but this is far better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started out on cottaging.co.uk,moved to this site then fabswingers. Have had many man meets on both. Only 1 woman meet a local lady. Personally think swingers is a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both, joined fabswingers and then after I thought about it more realised that I actually want a relationship with a woman rather than just sex, whereas with guys just interested in sex. So fabguys seemed more suitable

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Joined this one first then fabswingers. Original account on there vanished. Lack of use. Recently created a new one but rarely log in. Can't write on forum there. Most guys that I've met are on here as well. Had a few ask to meet on F/S who, according to their profiles, are straight? Also had a few offers fot 3somes involving women which does not appeal to me in the slightest.

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By *ichfield_guyMan
over a year ago

Bilbrook

I’m on both. Have a cuckold profile with my hotwife. She controls the profile, I do as I’m told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm on both and mainly use fabswingers to meet bi mmf couples which in my experience tends to be in swingers clubs (where comms are done via the messaging in fabswingers). i've rarely met women 1-1 on there, its mostly been couples and tvs

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By *iagoMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I have a profile on Fab Swingers with my partner.I met her on Fab about 7 years ago and we've been together ever since.I've been on here for about 8 years now and I joined Fab Swingers a bit later.

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By *suckcoxMan
over a year ago

Luton

I did have an account on swinger's, but it got closed down at the same time that cottaging stopped,

Also had this account, all had the same profile name and photos.

What I found is that many men had the same but some had different profile names.

After loosing the account on swinger's I never bothered making a new one as I found that once a female is involved it just gets complicated,

And even though my profile says that my wife is not interested,, all I got was guy's asking to join with me and my wife but never with their wife, even though their profile was for a couple and mine was for single male.

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By *oggermanMan
over a year ago

croydon

Liked cottaging.co.uk , but when that shut luckily managed to find this

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By *ick.LuvittMan
over a year ago

travel

On both, occasionally get the odd meet from guys who class themselves as straight but due to lack of women on there are happy to blow there load in a man’s mouth or some the ass. Usually late at night.

Never met a women or mixed couple on there but not that bothered about female and to meet a couple he would need to be bi

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By *acingfanMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just here.

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By *kcockringMan
over a year ago

wirral

On both, love cock and pussy, especially together.

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By *eedsbiguyMan
over a year ago

ls1

On both with the same name.

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By *opcock58Man
over a year ago

Helston

Used to be on both. FS is a waste of time and effort so left.

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By *kigaiMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I came straight here (see what did there) after an FB suggested it.

Swingers? God no.

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By *annyDanielleMan
over a year ago

Street, Somerset

Found fabguys on google then a tv i met recommended fabswingers. I've still got an active profile on there but i find i get more interest on here.

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By *weettonguedMan
over a year ago

Bideford

With legs like that Danielle, I suspect that you would arouse a great deal of interest anywhere!

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By *valittleoneMan
over a year ago

hampshire

On both site as my Mrs likes to watch guys as she wanks me be on this one a lot less when she around as its against site rules to see a woman on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on both but the Swingers account has been dormant for so long may have been closed down. Never use it these days.

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By *amelaXTV/TS
over a year ago

Swindon

I've hidden my Swingers profile now as most of the 'couples' on there were actually single men.

At least you know what you're getting with Fabguys

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By *rey man hereMan
over a year ago

york


"I joined Fabswingers not long after I just joined Fabguys, after asking on the forum if there was a similar site for meeting women. I've only ever met two women on there but quite a few guys. Find women rarely respond and when they do its just to be snarky. Both sites are a waste of time."
I joined both this one first 3 meets sorted swinger no chance . Definitely this one is the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave up on fabswingers when I knew I enjoyed gay sex way more

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fabguys only. Absolutely no interest in women!

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By *annyDanielleMan
over a year ago

Street, Somerset


"With legs like that Danielle, I suspect that you would arouse a great deal of interest anywhere! "

Thanks. You'd think, but there's always room for more.

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By *ortheastlad23Man
over a year ago

town

Yes and both are as equally shit!

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

On both.

Prefer fabswingers as although I like guys, I prefer women and couples

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By *iker59Man
over a year ago

Wrexhamm

Yep on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fs is shit full of fakes

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By *nalvirginMan
over a year ago

cheshire

On both but prefer this! Had lots of messages from straight guys on there looking for meets though? They may be don’t want catching out on a gay site but don’t mind if it’s on a straight site?

I’m in trouble if I’m found on either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On both - but let my memership lapse on swingers - can't be doing with all the "straight" messaging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined Fabswingers not long after I just joined Fabguys, after asking on the forum if there was a similar site for meeting women. I've only ever met two women on there but quite a few guys. Find women rarely respond and when they do its just to be snarky. Both sites are a waste of time."

Sadly I’m inclined largely to agree with you. I have met a couple of nice guys off here. No women of the sister site

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Newport

I was like Grimlock I started with cottaging and then join Fabguys after a short period I joined Fabswingers only to see what the fuss was about, I've made more friends here and have had much more fun but I have made friends on Fabswingers and now I stay connected to both only because I'm afraid I might miss out on things, but I will say both sites have changed drastically since covid and yes there are far more time wasters and false people than before

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By *irginbttmboiMan
over a year ago

London Heathrow

Yes… and it seems women don’t have to deal with time wasters and straight men go out their way to meet them, unlike men on here ughh community needs a big shake up. Also, many hot men on there. Sadly, most are straight

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By *achaTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton

I joined fabguys first (from cottaging.co.uk)

While in a club a friend showed me fabswingers

I spend more time on here than swingers, I find swingers has more timewasters. Es courts and dreamers etc obviously because it has a lot more members

I also get a lot more messages on there but most

seem to be from so called “straight guys”

They don’t want to suck my cock but within seconds their on their knees x

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By *Vbi47Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I joined fabguys first then fabswingers a few months later. The guys site is by far the better site for men though imo

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By *tr8StripperMan
over a year ago

London/Essex

I started off on FabSwingers but found guys on here friendlier and more welcoming

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By *itchianMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Similar for me. Was on both but fabswingers was a bit of a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on fabswingers. Met my wife on their and played together. Both bi.

Now separated and finding ladies or cpls to play with is near impossible so joined here.

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By *ttmn1Man
over a year ago

Shoreditch- east London

First here and then FS. More response to what I'm looking for on there compared to here. Can't explain why but it works for me.

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By *nthony 500Man
over a year ago

north Manchester area

Yes

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By *ndstorm45Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Me and the wife joined Fab Swingers back in August time after we had a chat about our sex life. Told her about this site as I wanted to be a sub for other men and she just said 'crack on' lol. We do still meet as a couple on Swingers but I just watch her having sex while I'm her cuck. She also fucks other guys while I'm at work. But me being on this site is purely for me to experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On both. Met couple sweet lasses on there but its lot easier to get man sex. Any night here will be good night. Have to work at it on swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both me n wife r on fanswingers as col plus she has her own profile on there as I do here. I get cock from here she gets cock n pussy from fanswingers n on our joined profile we get to meet other bi cpls. Both have worked out really well

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By *HRISTINE006900TV/TS
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I joined Fab Swingers to see if I could meet any women interested in a transvestite, so far none. I only get guys and other transvestites.

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By *loset TVTV/TS
over a year ago

bradford


"If you are on both sites did you join simultaneously or just the one and then ended up joining the other?

Apologies if this is a similar theme to other threads posted or has been asked before. It’s difficult sometimes to be original with so many new posts being put up each day!

If you are on both sites would you say you spend more time on this site and find it a better platform for what you require or that there’s no difference?

I joined Fabswingers a few years ago searching for women. I ended up looking at CDs/TV profiles and had a couple of meets enjoying them immensely before starting to take an increasing interest in guys. At that point I joined this site.

I really enjoy the experience and I’d say, although still a Fabswingers member, I spend most of my time on here and have found it a great site. I don’t take an active interest in women now and I am calm and comfortable with that state of being realising that (if we use labels (yeah I know another controversial forum debate) that I have obviously always not been straight, although in a straight relationship and not out (probably wrong I know).

So my experience is exclusively Fabguys now and I have moved right along the spectrum as the site has helped evolve a dormant sexuality. So thanks guys!

"

Same babes. xx

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

I don't like fs too many pretentious women receiving 100s of mail from desperate men.

Fab guys is way superior, at least you get plenty of meets and enjoy your gay side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined FS shortly after joining here.

I find FS has more timewasters and _antasists. So many ‘straight’ guys wanting to meet for ‘annon’ meets. ‘Will you be bent over on all fours ready for me with a hood on, lights off. I’ll come into your hotel room, fuck you, fill you and go’. errrr…no thanks!

Having said that. I have had a handful of good meets with guys from FS.

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By *mbatmanMan
over a year ago

west end, southampton

I joined swingers after joining here. I tend to use swingers more for meets and use this site for the forum.

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By *orkie21Man
over a year ago

york

Just on here. Was thinking of joining FS.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thane area

I’m on both

Fab guys for men and swingers for couples

Over the years been lucky - met a woman and we teamed up on swingers met some lovely people but all good things come to an end and she moved on .

Still get couples but hard work as a single

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By *ing_donMan
over a year ago

Sheffield/Leeds

I’m on Fab Guys but also on Fab Swingers with the Mrs…but she uses the Fab Swingers account more than I!

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By *achaTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton


"I joined Fab Swingers to see if I could meet any women interested in a transvestite, so far none. I only get guys and other transvestites. "

I nearly met a woman on there……luckily I found out from a friend she was a loon

She ended up becoming a bit of a stalker messaging people I’d met, trying to find out where I lived and my phone number etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On both

Harder to get a meet on FS"

Amen to that. No longer on FS. More Timewasters there than here and there's enough here

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By *aidTV/TS
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm on both. I would say 90% of my messages on fabswin are from "straight" men. Ive also noticed quite a few people who are on both sites but makes themselves a few years younger on fabswin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both. I've been on FS about 8 or 9 years, met 2 women and spoken long term to a few more women and couples where it never came to anything.

The first woman I took to lunch, we didn't really click or like each other I suspect, we were very different personalities so it didn't go any further. Fair enough.

The second one was a really odd cove, she met straight after work (ew), and smelt of stale milk. She was nice enough to talk to though and we had a meal and went back to hers with me knowing deep down she'd need a bath before anything could happen, but she spent the evening talking about her pets and I worked out that she just wanted some company and FS was her way of meeting new people. And possibly getting free meals. After a couple of coffees I left and went home.

It's been a waste of time frankly, it's like the Mos Eisley cantina in there. Oodles of men posing as women, or couples where the woman is never around, the same level of time wasters as here, waifs, strays, the truly weird, the lost and the lonely. FG is a bit better.... and I've actually had good sex with one woman through here, so that beats FS!

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"With legs like that Danielle, I suspect that you would arouse a great deal of interest anywhere! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On both, but find this less worse.

I wish for the days when Gaydar was good.

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By *aturebarneyMan
over a year ago

Sale

I'm on both had twice the number of meets on here compared with fs.All male no female meetings.

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By *EE96Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Both. Joined here first. Had some nice MMF meets on FS but seem to spend more time on here these days.

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

I'm on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more time wasters on fab swingers than on here. I came off it

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By *xel326Man
over a year ago

North Shropshire

Although I'm gay I joined FS to see if I could find some MMF fun.

Have had no luck. Any msgs I send to MF couples get answered by the women who aren't nearly as friendly and responsive as guys on here. So I barely go on FS now, but I'm on this site regularly - much better value.

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By *ountainMan
over a year ago

ipswich

Lots of guys on swingers like guys as well I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Setting one up later today, getting the wife involved for some mmf and cuckold fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I'm gay I joined FS to see if I could find some MMF fun.

Have had no luck. Any msgs I send to MF couples get answered by the women who aren't nearly as friendly and responsive as guys on here. So I barely go on FS now, but I'm on this site regularly - much better value."

best way, in my experience, has been to go to swingers clubs and meet them there. most cases there needs to a social meet first before any play.

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By *xel326Man
over a year ago

North Shropshire


"Although I'm gay I joined FS to see if I could find some MMF fun.

Have had no luck. Any msgs I send to MF couples get answered by the women who aren't nearly as friendly and responsive as guys on here. So I barely go on FS now, but I'm on this site regularly - much better value.

best way, in my experience, has been to go to swingers clubs and meet them there. most cases there needs to a social meet first before any play."

Thanks - I've heard there's a bi day started at Northwich sauna, so I was thinking maybe I should try that too

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By *olchester3Man
over a year ago

colchester

Both

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By *entleoneMan
over a year ago

near heathrow

Yes I am on both, but as a couple on fabswingers

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By *ick_nwMan
over a year ago

manchester

I'm on as a couple on FS. We've over 200 verifications on there and probably less than 20 of them from using the site to meet. The vast majority are from the clubs. If we'd had to rely on FS for meets we'd have given up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started on Fabswingers and noticed on the log in section there tht they advertised fabguys,so thts how I joined up here too, I've had numerous meets off both sites,I reckon I spend the same amount of time on both

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By *ICOCK65Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

No only ever been on hear it is what it is I’m bisexual can’t change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On aside note,just noticed a new profile on fabswingers local to me ,where a guy has started a profile ,user name sti carrier ,the headline on it is this guy fucked my wife and gave us a STD ,and he's posted 2 photos of the guy, reckon tht profile won't last too long when Admin over there cop on to it

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By *ockslutt28Man
over a year ago

Greenock

Yes both,

Fabswingers is good for straight guys that just want a hole to fuck cos their mrs is shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in fabswingers first, looking for other tgirls. I joined fabguys a few years ago and I’m looking for guys now. Fabguys is better than fabswingers xx

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By *opmaster62Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes. Fabguys is my "clean" profile. Dirty profile on Swingers (different name). It's interesting who bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on both. I've been on FS about 8 or 9 years, met 2 women and spoken long term to a few more women and couples where it never came to anything.

The first woman I took to lunch, we didn't really click or like each other I suspect, we were very different personalities so it didn't go any further. Fair enough.

The second one was a really odd cove, she met straight after work (ew), and smelt of stale milk. She was nice enough to talk to though and we had a meal and went back to hers with me knowing deep down she'd need a bath before anything could happen, but she spent the evening talking about her pets and I worked out that she just wanted some company and FS was her way of meeting new people. And possibly getting free meals. After a couple of coffees I left and went home.

It's been a waste of time frankly, it's like the Mos Eisley cantina in there. Oodles of men posing as women, or couples where the woman is never around, the same level of time wasters as here, waifs, strays, the truly weird, the lost and the lonely. FG is a bit better.... and I've actually had good sex with one woman through here, so that beats FS!

"

I met a m/f couple through FG in September and we had a very enjoyable 3sum. Never met a m/f couple through FS.

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Joined fabswingers and like some have said, noticed there was a fabguys and because I like watching men wank and cum I joined here

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Wells

I joined cottaging Years ago as a male then moved to fab guys as cottaging dissapeared.

I started dressing a lot more so came across fab swingers and joined them as a T girl. I was having a lot more fun on there so I joined here as Alex a year or two after.

I think I get more meetings via fab swingers as once the straight guys have been refused by all the regular girls, their mind starts getting curious and they're seem to start thinking,any hole is a goal.

I have to be honest, both fabs have become harder work over the last year or so, it's definitely not as much fun as it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Also grinder, kik and squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have to be honest, both fabs have become harder work over the last year or so, it's definitely not as much fun as it was."

Post covid people are scared of their own shadow sadly. Many think We are still in lockdown.

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By *foruseMan
over a year ago

brentwood

Joined fabguys 5 years ago and was fairly active on it until Covid. Since then meetings have dramatically reduce but still get the occasional one. Joined fab swingers about 6 months after fabguys and soon realised that as a fifty plus, single man who can’t accom there was virtually no chance of meeting a single women or even a couple. That said I enjoy looking at the profiles and live in hope.

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By *ach139TV/TS
over a year ago

liverpool

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By *ach139TV/TS
over a year ago

liverpool

I'm on both and I'm so surprised at the attention from so many straight men on swingers do think they should separate CDs from TVs though x

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By *irralGuy20Man
over a year ago

Wirral

On here in my own right - on the other as a couple with my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stopped using fabswingers ages ago. We have both always been singers met my wife at swinging party she was their with her ex husband

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

Have been on both but find the members on fabguys to be more chatty. The community and social side of this site seems a lot friendlier with some banter.

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By *ustJodieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

A better question would be; Are you on both Fabswingers and Fabguys, and do you have your sexuality as straight on there and bisexual on here".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but the swingers site is shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds just like me

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By *rey man hereMan
over a year ago

york


"I joined Fabswingers not long after I just joined Fabguys, after asking on the forum if there was a similar site for meeting women. I've only ever met two women on there but quite a few guys. Find women rarely respond and when they do its just to be snarky. Both sites are a waste of time."
i am similar except no woman's come out to play last night was closest but the did not turn up . I spend more time on here

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By *Vbi47Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Swingers site is very poor if you’re looking for men

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By *arwick1Man
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

I’m on both & joined them at the same time.

I seem to be bucking the trend as I get more offers there than on fabguys. A few women have approached me, but, none that I would be interested in meeting. Lots of hot ‘straight’ guys have shown an interest tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On swingers as m/f couple, just me on here. Spend most time here, would say 70 per cent of time xx

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By *eorgesdadMan
over a year ago

Long Eaton Nottingham

I am on both but now exclusively look for men to fuck me so i will probably not be site supporter on swingers when it runs out! Bring on the top men

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By *ardiffchatMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes but I only use this site now

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By *aidTV/TS
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm on both. I started on swin but spend much more time here now. Swin is ok but i find being on there as a tv 99% of my mail is from "straight" guys that have no intention of actually meeting. On fabguys i find people are more direct about what want.

Still lots of timewasters on both though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both...BUT FS ADMIN banned me from forums...apparently I was asking to many questions about their double standards for members....MOI???

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By *ack2NatureMan
over a year ago

carlisle

I’m on both…. Much better chat on here and some great guys….. some not very nice comments on FS….

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By *anDadBodMan
over a year ago

Speke

i’m on this one, mrs is still on fabswingers

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I’m on both! Love ‘straight’ types lol

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By *9XAYNOR69Man
over a year ago

Centralised he/him/his From the land of cocksuckers

I initially joined fabguys but was drawn to fabswingers.

If I'm being honest preference is for fabswingers.

The guys I've met respectful of the situation me being an older gay guy.

I'm just enjoying the experience

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By *oblob62Man
over a year ago

Coseley

I'm on both but fabswingers is crap so my profile is hidden, impossible to get a meet with couples and women. much better on here as I prefer dressing and cock now anyway

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By *irginBoy32Man
over a year ago

Catford

I am. And the forums on both are rife with controlled opinions and silencers. Except on here its toxic beyond words. I've been given the nickname Grimey by those toxic fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on both sites but when online I spend most time on here

I probably get 10 times more messages on the other site and surprisingly from straight verified guys more than anyone else. I personally think meets are still more likely on here and think the guys on here are more genuine that appreciate girls like me more x

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Only on here. I'm gay, so no interest in women

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By *luerooMan
over a year ago

bridgwater

am on both, and have had very little interactions from either site.

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

I love fab guys, you get to meet many men.

I don't like fab swingers at all, it's full of time wasting men and women with massive egos who are in big demand

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By *-skinMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

On both get nothing from fabswingers to old lol

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By *obert1950Man
over a year ago

Hockley

And you just 58. I’d better stay here

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By *arrie cardieTV/TS
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes on both, started on fab swingers and went to a few clubs and got known. Found out crossdressing and tgirls were more then welcome even with the ladies. Made a very nice friend and ended up on fabguys as well. I can't be happier .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started on FS then came here. I’ve been on and off the other one a few times but as others have said it’s ridiculously hard to get a meet on there. Definitely a more relaxed experience on here.

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By *ettightsTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 3 couples off FS, and a few Str? Hubbies. The trick is NOT to verify each other, Prospective couples don't want to see that a couple have been with biguy or TV..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was originally on fab swingers, got talking to this really sexy lady, after a few days of chatting we decided to meet back at hers. Turned up and it was a cock in a frock! She/he told me to go to the bedroom and put what she had laid out on the bed on. Being open minded I did and ended up being fucked!

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By *umpy101Man
over a year ago

Barry

Yeah I'm on both, swingers to meet women, and on here for guys.

Fabswingers, I've noticed is that many women treat it like a dating site, and treat you like you should be so lucky to even get a response from them, they're incredibly picky and expect you to do all the leg work. Don't get me wrong, I've had a fair few meets on there, and they've been good fun, but the overall experience is tiring and by the time I've found someone, it's been so tedious that I'm no longer horny.

Fabguys has too many time wasters, fantasisers, pic collectors, and people who think they're hot shit. I've never met a guy with the mentality of "I don't message first" until I signed up to this site. I don't know who the fuck you think you are, but if you aren't going to bother, then neither will I.

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By *ay4121Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Am on both although rarely visit other site these days, primarily because I feel I'm looking for guys these days (I feel I'm more gay as I get older) but that said never say never or maybe with a couple?

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By *izzler123Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I’m on both but find fab swingers hard work to get a meet so will stick mainly to fab guys.... I’d like to meet some nice women but I don’t think sex is one of their priorities these days ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on fabguys, no need of fabswingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve joined both. Have met a few ‘straight’ blokes.

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By *entrino633TV/TS
over a year ago

Romsey

I joined FS first, and FG some time later - it took me quite a while to build up to it.

Now having been on both for a while, I sign into FG first and consider it my “main” profile, but I sign into FS as well if less often.

If I am joining the chat cams I will join the FG one first, then the FS as well so both see the same cam.

I tend to get more reaction from the guys on FS than FG, even if their profiles are clear that they are straight…

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By *idzguyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I get more interest on Fabswingers than Fabguys off men lol

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
over a year ago

West London

I’m on both, but had more luck with guys on fab swingers

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By *irginBoy32Man
over a year ago

Catford


"I’m on both, but had more luck with guys on fab swingers"

That's because guys realise most of the females either won't reply to single guys or are fake, so they just want their cock sucked and are willing to let a guy do it for them instead. Plus a lot of bi couples etc. The ones that are actually real

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By *izzler123Man
29 weeks ago

Norwich

I’ve had a lot more luck on fabguys …. Seems a bit hit and miss at the moment though… I’ve only met one couple on Fabswingers unfortunately…. Very nice experience and a lovely pair I must say lol!!

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Motherwell

I have been on both for 14 years, don't really meet couples anymore and still enjoying myself with the men on both. Mx

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Colchester

I created a profile on FS first, then a profile on here not long after. Prior to creating both profiles on fab, I had a profile on dogging site and cruising site. I first heard about FS when I was in the chatroom on tvchix xx

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Walsall

Started on here then fabswingers where I've had the best time and met my wife xxx

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By *ishman62Man
29 weeks ago

Crewe

I used to be on both but only this one now because fabswingers is hard work(

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By *-skinMan
29 weeks ago

Weymouth


"I used to be on both but only this one now because fabswingers is hard work("
I'm with you.

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By *imberly_4uTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Okey

Was on Swingers for years then some guy I met put me onto fabguys so I created an account on here too,

Like them both - ironically I get way more meets on swingers but I prefer the forums / chat on here

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By *ottom4444Man
29 weeks ago

Near Sudbury

The Mrs made me a swingers profile first and from there found fabguys.

Use both sites but 99% of my meets come through swingers now.

But the forum is much better in here, hardly ever use the swingers forum. It gives the impression of being very cliquey

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
29 weeks ago

Bargoed

Joined guys first, then about a year ago joined swingers too once realised there were bi/gay/curious guys on there.

Had a couple of meets via there but most from here.

Gives us a chance to perve at the straight guys cocks.

Have also chatted to a couple of straight guys from there who we work with.

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By *Aguy2022Man
29 weeks ago

Littlehampton

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By *aul1956Man
29 weeks ago

bristol

Fab guys has been a huge success for me, amazing responses to posts and plenty of satisfied meets, I totally recommend x

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By *Aguy2022Man
29 weeks ago

Littlehampton


"I used to be on both but only this one now because fabswingers is hard work("

100% agree. More guys on there are even more relentless when a possibility of a woman is involved. On here is so much more straight "pardon the phrase" forward.

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By *xonMeganCDTV/TS
29 weeks ago

wantage

First joined fab swingers, spoke to some lovely people but was not for me as partner does not play anymore.

Went to a function after being invited but yes I can repeat but what’s the point if you only last a few minutes then half an hour wait before trying again.

Then moved over to this site but don’t even bother to vers.

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By *ucy_juicyTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Midlands

I am on both.

Do ok on either when available to dress and play although most meets on swingers are with “straight” guys who would not want veris from me but seem to very much enjoy meeting me

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By *ickwayverMan
29 weeks ago

Sheen Putney

Both but more interest from str8 guys on the other site.

Joined both after a recommendation from the now defunct cottaging site

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By *irginBoy32Man
29 weeks ago

Catford

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Both but as a couple there.

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By *oger_07Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Yes. Both.

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By *hubbysimonMan
29 weeks ago

Whitwell

Both. Originally on here first then joined the sister site. I do better on the sister site no idea why as identical profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Both

But will quit swingers when my membership expires

Don’t understand guys who have not looking for anyone of your sex looking at my profile when it’s clear I’m gay

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By *iketotry2000Man
29 weeks ago

Tonypandy

I'm on both. SWINGERS is much better for video content compared to Guys..most vids on here are solo wanking vids. Much more action on the Fab vids. However not has much real action on Swingers as I have on Guys.

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By *iketotry2000Man
29 weeks ago

Tonypandy

I've noticed lots of negativity against Bi guys on Swingers especially from Women. So I do suggest if you're bi and want sex with women or MF couples put second straight profile with different photos on Fabswingers I would surmise that the anti Bi bias is because they think they have more chance of getting stds or hiv from guys who have sex with other guys.

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By *antasistMan
29 weeks ago

Nowhere

I started on here, was chatting to a guy about the other site and he said it was good, so I gave it a go. Plenty of guys with straight profiles but will meet other guys on the quiet

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By *ighlands fellaMan
29 weeks ago

thurso

On both but started on there first with the wife then decided to join here as was told it would be easier to meet bi guys for both

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By *irgin_Btm_PaulMan
29 weeks ago

Liverpool

Joined fabswingers first looking for women, with no lucky, then started to look at end but most could accom or were hard to arrange ab meet with so juno over to here, been on of ever since, say I spend more time on here, singers is me for long at tv/ts nowadays

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By *HRISTINE006900TV/TS
29 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I tend to spend more time on here than Swingers . A lot more activity on here.

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By *eonard_PhilipsMan
29 weeks ago

Whitby

Can never find a woman to fuck men are way easier to find

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By *i-guy-75Man
29 weeks ago

travel about

I’m on both as me and partner do play with bi guys when we go to bi events.

The difference seems on here people are more open minded, and the same guys who say they are straight on fabswingers pare on here as well playing with men x

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By *ootsloverTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Tetbury

On both as some of my meets here have gone over there and are there only.

More genuine meets here.

Lots more messages here

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"I've noticed lots of negativity against Bi guys on Swingers especially from Women. So I do suggest if you're bi and want sex with women or MF couples put second straight profile with different photos on Fabswingers I would surmise that the anti Bi bias is because they think they have more chance of getting stds or hiv from guys who have sex with other guys. "

so lie to people?

I am on the fs site with the mrs and that is one big thing with us is the lies and deception that people tell and do to get a shag.

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By *ew trixTV/TS
29 weeks ago

doncaster

I was on fabswingers first but wasn’t getting as much as I like so came over to here

I still have a profile on fabswingers x

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By *ockey stickMan
29 weeks ago

Hounslow

Yep, I'm on fs with my other half. Now people just presume on here that they can play with my other half.

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By *BBCNCDMan
29 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Is there much gay action on stingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

On both. We joined FS first then later I joined here looking for guys that were actually bi rather than pretend bi so they can fuck Mrs.

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By *aseMan
29 weeks ago

Gloucester

I’m on both and my partner is on there with me

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By *isa220TV/TS
29 weeks ago

Greenock

Am on both same name

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