FabGuys.com forum: Designing a BDSM play room

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

A conversation with a very submissive young man reminded me that I have a floored loft that I have entered once in the 7 years I have stayed here.

Floored and completely empty. Pull-down ladder.

The ladder is no go in a pair of heels so I have been researching the cost of getting a proper staircase from the first floor to the loft.

I am very vulnerable to BDSM, but increasingly I find myself meeting up with young guys who are looked for a dominatrix-type experience.

Not sure how much I am looking or what exactly.

I thought the wonderful people of Fab might be able to give me some inspiration about how to create a play room in the loft.

TIA

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By *our-slaveMan
49 weeks ago

nottingham

A client of mine has a BDSM playroom in the loft, with a pull down ladder. Unless you are flush with cash, I wouldn’t bother replacing the ladder.

Regarding equipment, it depends on how much you want to spend. I’d start with a cheap spanking bench from eBay. Get one that can double up as a fucking bench.

Consider a St Andrews cross for nipple torture, CBT, whipping, tie and tease etc.

A smother box can be useful.

Get rope and cling film, nipple clamps, riding crop, canes, maybe a single tail whip, vibrator, estim or similar.

You can build up and gradually add to your collection.

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By *eefandfurMan
49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Attaching strong eyelet brackets at various points on your rafters can make for easy and quick attachment points for wrist and ankle cuffs, ropes or a sling. Rafters on older houses should be strong enough but be careful if you have modern lightweight roof trusses. Could easily form a St Andrew's cross by adding a couple of pieces of timber.

Careful of any exposed insulation. Glass fibre and naked skin are too S&M.

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By *eonaFnFTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Hingham

Check out some bdsm hotels for inspiration. the world of bdsm is massive with many different themes.. for me brick walls, black n red colours have always been an attraction, I would say have 1 centre piece/ show stopper that is going to capture the imagination when entering.. a table for displaying toys, seating for spectators and mirrors, lots of mirrors so you can see everything xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Super thank you

It would easily convert to a bedroom, but I want to keep the space open. It has no natural light, but a strip light.

Above are the roof beams, that I could attach hooks to.

A X against one of the walls.

I'm quite minimalist in design, so I like a lot of space to move around

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Super thank you

It would easily convert to a bedroom, but I want to keep the space open. It has no natural light, but a strip light.

Above are the roof beams, that I could attach hooks to.

A X against one of the walls.

I'm quite minimalist in design, so I like a lot of space to move around

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By *eefandfurMan
49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Keeping it as an unfinished space can also be quite kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

The rough look - bare bricks and roof beams

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By *ayhubbyMan
49 weeks ago

liverpool

Mirror so the sub can see himself being used if he isn’t hooded

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Red Lights, like on a submarine.

And then they go dark, and start flashing

I need an electrician as well as a joiner

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By *ature pa cockMan
49 weeks ago

Southam

We’re converting one of our bedrooms into a playroom.

St Andrews cross, a Queening seat, fucking machine, a stool with a dildo attached and a wet sheet on the floor.

All manner of whips, floggers and toys to go with that.

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By *espectdueMan
49 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

Small fixings on the brickwork are all you need for restraining someone's arms, then you can use a leg spreader for their ankles.

A mobile massage bench from amazon is great for lying them on, quite solid and then folds into a bag for discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

That sounds brill, love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

I am thinking a secret door too, one you would never think would lead to something so erotic

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By *espectdueMan
49 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

"I am thinking a secret door too, one you would never think would lead to something so erotic "

Sounds perfect.

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By *ature pa cockMan
49 weeks ago

Southam

Sounds great.

We’re just putting a lock on ours to save shocking unexpecting visitors

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By *aster CaneMan
49 weeks ago

bridgemary Gosport

You will love a playroom, build your own spanking bench and add some tie points

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Thank you.

I've just realised that, in the absence of any heating up, this will ba seasonal area to play.

Unless any of my submissive are into frost play.

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By *annicuriousMan
49 weeks ago

Berkshire

Make sure you can't see though the tiles outside when it's dark or people will think you're growing

No officer, that's just my domination chamber lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Ha, yes, there is that.

I've seen on the telly how the drug cops do aerial surveys looking for houses with excessive heat loss through their roof.

The only thing I'll be growing is the experience of my visitors

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By *agedsubCoolMan
49 weeks ago

amesbury

If you are looking for subs to practice on - sign me up. Anything goes.

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By *ld4yngfunMan
49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That all sounds good fun.

I wish there was somewhere like that in my area. ( Edinburgh ).

I would love to do some bondage & spanking fun, etc.

I do have some bondage ropes, tape, hood, & clingfilm.

But never find anyone interested in it.

I can accom', if any guys into local fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

I went up the loft today for the first time in years and realised the potential is huge.

I asked my friends on Facebook if they could recommend a joiner in Bristol, and one of my friends who appears to be handy with the tools is coming over on Friday to have a look.

To install a proper staircase.

I'll go up the loft with him and see what else he thinks might be possible.

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By *our-slaveMan
49 weeks ago

nottingham

"Thank you.

I've just realised that, in the absence of any heating up, this will ba seasonal area to play.

Unless any of my submissive are into frost play.

You could put an oil filled electric heater up there and turn it on an hour before the session starts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Thank you.

I've just realised that, in the absence of any heating up, this will ba seasonal area to play.

Unless any of my submissive are into frost play.

You could put an oil filled electric heater up there and turn it on an hour before the session starts "

It was quite warm when I went up today - warmer than in the house.

It has been floored but all the walls are bare brick - the house dates from the 1880s. The chimney breast wall is a curious design.

Above me, it is just the 45 degree roof beams propping up the roof tiles.

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By *ink69Man
49 weeks ago

Chatham

Would like to be sub for someone to practice on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

A local joiner came round today to measure up for a quote for a staircase.

( I asked him to give me a price to replace kitchen units, too)

Thank you for all the ideas sent privately - a lot of inspiration there.

When I get the staircase in, I can go to work kitting it out

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Bedford

Double width loft ladders are available and not difficult to install same with kitchen units very simple just saying xxx

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By *tar33Man
49 weeks ago

North London (outer)

Considering your Olympic ambitions, and the disappointment of only making third reserve this time, it's commendable that you are considering installing an extra training area such as this.

If I were you, I'd do a little research to see if you are entitled to a Team GB development grant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

I’m determined to win the gold medal at the next Olypimics, love

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By *ndyBristolMan
48 weeks ago

Keynsham

You will certainly be on the top of the podium. xxx

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By *ickthrobbingMan
48 weeks ago

Taplow

"A conversation with a very submissive young man reminded me that I have a floored loft that I have entered once in the 7 years I have stayed here.

Floored and completely empty. Pull-down ladder.

The ladder is no go in a pair of heels so I have been researching the cost of getting a proper staircase from the first floor to the loft.

I am very vulnerable to BDSM, but increasingly I find myself meeting up with young guys who are looked for a dominatrix-type experience.

Not sure how much I am looking or what exactly.

I thought the wonderful people of Fab might be able to give me some inspiration about how to create a play room in the loft.

TIA"

Ascend and descend the ladder into the loft wearing flats, you can get the sub to take of and put on the shoes, of course if they get it wrong they get spanked, doubt they will ever get it right

If you go up the ladder first of course the sub gets punished for up skirting

Loft spaces can make good play spaces, eye screws into rafters for tie points

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Loft spaces can make good play spaces, eye screws into rafters for tie points

Yes, I can see lots of brackets with O-rings being drilled into the beams, walls and floor

Good bit of advice was to go to B + Q for stuff like that.

I need to get a drill and masonry bits, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Ascend and descend the ladder into the loft wearing flats, you can get the sub to take of and put on the shoes, of course if they get it wrong they get spanked, doubt they will ever get it right

If you go up the ladder first of course the sub gets punished for up skirting

Loft spaces can make good play spaces, eye screws into rafters for tie points

A staircase hidden behind a cupboard door in my bedroom will be so much better than fannying around with ladders that cause an obstruction on the staircase landing.

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By *omyorksMan
48 weeks ago

Malton

"A local joiner came round today to measure up for a quote for a staircase.

( I asked him to give me a price to replace kitchen units, too)

Thank you for all the ideas sent privately - a lot of inspiration there.

When I get the staircase in, I can go to work kitting it out

Do you have his number? I've been trying for weeks to get a joiner lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

I posted an advert on book a builder website, love, and about 5 joiners responded.

One is about to go on holiday, and the other 2 say they will have time at the end of this week to size up a price.

Chap came yesterday, and I'm waiting now for his quote.

The internet tells me to expect £1500-2000.

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By *ichey6Man
48 weeks ago

aberdeen

Invite the Fab Tims to the opening...

Big Les can test out the kit...

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Red Lights, like on a submarine.

And then they go dark, and start flashing

I need an electrician as well as a joiner"

Im sure some young men would come and serve you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

"Maggie, your boys took one hell of a beating . . ."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Im sure some young men would come and serve you"

Well, it's funny you should say that.

I adore young fit tops.

I find quite a few start out as tops and then want to become screaming subs.

Well, they can scream all they like in my loft now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

"Invite the Fab Tims to the opening...

Big Les can test out the kit...

That's a great idea, love.

We'll lash him to the cross (a celtic cross of course).

Gagged to silence the interminable whinging.

Headphones over the ears, volume up full, "20 Best Rebel Songs Volume 7" playing on repeat.

I don't think I will blindfold him - I want to see the pain in the eyes.

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By *ichey6Man
48 weeks ago

aberdeen

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By *astDevonGuyMan
48 weeks ago

East Devon

Think you have to provide a Breakout / Safespace too, as well as all the equipment .

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Bedford

When I did my loft conversion I had to put two RSJ support in and a fire escape .but maybe the law has changed.xxx

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By *eefandfurMan
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Why not ask the joiner to quote for a St Andrew's cross and spanking bench too.

You might get a discount if you offer to let him try it out.

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By *espectdueMan
48 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

"Think you have to provide a Breakout / Safespace too, as well as all the equipment ."

You mean like the rest of the building

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Great idea hope it works out x

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Bedford

Think building regs come into play as usually loft floor joists are not designed to carry weight plus insulation sound proofing, and window escape route. I also had to install two doors fire proof. But best check what is called permitted development. There's a big difference between loft storage and human habitat but whose gonna know xxx

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By *iley_Starr115TV/TS
48 weeks ago

Glasgow

I wanted to do something like this as I have a spare bedroom but that's likely to be occupied within the next few months lol

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Bedford

"I wanted to do something like this as I have a spare bedroom but that's likely to be occupied within the next few months lol"
yes that is no problem as its already a room designed for human occupation. But loft and garage conversion are a whole new can of worms . Pain in the arse (no pun intended) planning and building regs nightmare plus if anything goes wrong your insurance is not worth the paper its written on .but hey ho xxx

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By *bbbbbMan
48 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Putting a staircase in is a major outlay, plus you need permission and meet regulations. A few scaffold planks will make most of you torture equipment lol

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By *lexieMan
48 weeks ago

Just north of Southampton

"Red Lights, like on a submarine.

And then they go dark, and start flashing

I need an electrician as well as a joiner"

Blimey, chained and bondaged in Sara's attic wif ya bits hanging out is def the stuff of dreams eh!

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
48 weeks ago

Dublin

Need any one to test it out on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Well, Richey suggested I hold an opening event to celebrate - it's an idea with merit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

"Need any one to test it out on

Well, I could do with a handyman tbh.

The joiner will install the staircase - I need a professional for that.

I may or may not need an electrician, too - lighting of the staircase, and maybe in loft too.

After that, it's DIY.

I'm clueless about DIY but I have lots of ideas for the equipment.

It's all going to need brackets drilled into the wooden beams above, the brickwork and the MDF flooring (which I might cover with a brickwork Lino)

At the moment, I think I need to research what I need - an electric drill, masonry drill bits, metal rail plugs and whatnot.

If there is a handyman in Bristol who knows what's doing and would like to help, I'd be ever so grateful.

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By *mptyspace80Man
48 weeks ago

Cambridge

Honestly, I'd say the first thing is to get the underlying structure sorted. You're going to want to put down a waterproof, non-slip floor to make the place easy to clean.

Make sure all the sockets have gfci safeties and maybe even use outdoor sealable sockets.

Make sure you have known solid anchor points and maybe even reinforce the various joists and beams.

Make sure the space is ventilated to prevent moisture build-up, damp and mould.

The base structure is the most important part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

yes, that's good advice, thanks.

I am thinking a lot about the equipment but focussed only on getting the infrastructure in place first - the staircase, then the electrics, then the flooring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Fingers crossed, I have joiner coming in on Tuesday to start work on the staircase.

I'm stills swithering whether I can make do with the existing electrics, or get a professional in.

Next I need to go measure up the floorspace. I'm thinking about "dirty brick" effect Lino.

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By *ndyBristolMan
48 weeks ago

Keynsham

Lino is a good shout, easier to mop up any spillages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

That's what I was thinking, yes. It's currently just the standard loft floorboarding, whatever that's called.

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By *ardnutsMan
48 weeks ago

Pensby

Just been reading through this thread and what springs to mind is there are many on here would would love to be forced to do the work naked maybe. For nothing except a good thrashing or paddling. Your not looking out of the box. Save a fortune and keep lots of sub guys very happy making them work for their fun. Think of the rewards they would work towards.

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By *ardnutsMan
48 weeks ago

Pensby

My heads already full of bdsm ideas they could be subject to whilst doing the work specially naked. Berate them for working to slow by whatever means you fancy. Anything is possible and a win win for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

"Just been reading through this thread and what springs to mind is there are many on here would would love to be forced to do the work naked maybe. For nothing except a good thrashing or paddling. Your not looking out of the box. Save a fortune and keep lots of sub guys very happy making them work for their fun. Think of the rewards they would work towards. "

Joiner - sorted

Electrician - yes, please

Handyman - yes, please

For your rest breaks, I will take you in chains to the kennel where you may lick my thigh high boots

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By *ardnutsMan
48 weeks ago

Pensby

Oooo now I'm sure you can think of better than that. Just kneeling face first in the kennel conjures up some wonderful opportunities. Neck chain connected to balls chain passed through a hole in the back of the kennel for starters.

a strap or estim or large dildo would be a wonderful breaktime event for them to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

I've still got my L-plates on, love

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By *wilxj8Man
47 weeks ago

Kingswood BS15 8EQ

Hi im in BS15 and am very good at DIY and happy to fix up o rings, fixtures and fittings etc for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

That's ever so kind, thank you x

I'm probably 3 or 4 weeks away from being ready to begin fitting it out

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By *tokerY2OMan
47 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I've designed and built 3 so fair, love it if you need any advice hmu.

The one piece of advice I wish I knew before my first was to make sure you tile and waterproof. Even if you not into watersports per se subs will almost always pee themselves at some point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Thanks, yes, I intend to lay an easy-clean linoleum floor. You just never when things might get, um, er, messy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Joiner has finished his 2nd day now, the stairs are taking shape and I'm getting excited.

I've discovered I will need a plasterer once the joiner is finished.

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By *ottom-4nsaMan
47 weeks ago

Poole

In the joiner happens to say he also does a bit of plastering as well, I'd say something fishy afoot lol...... but it does sounds logical it'll need doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

Oh, no, he's quite honest about that and says it's not something he can do. The jury is still out on an electrician.

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By *ottom-4nsaMan
47 weeks ago

Poole

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Prepare for a million messages from guys wanting to try it out when its finished

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

I've got a tantric sofa and a flat, very-low couch bed down the stairs at the moment.

I'll be moving them up there, and putting some securing hooks in the floor around them.

I've seen a set of hanging stocks - wrists and neck - and I think I'll hang those from the beams. A spreader will keep him nice and tight.

The big expense looks like a St Andrews cross.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

The stairs are in now. I'm waiting for my regular electrician to tell me when he is free to sort the light fittings. Then I will need a plasterer.

After that, I can go to work fitting out the place. I've already got some furniture ready to move up there.

My only worry is that by the time it's ready, summer will have passed and the temperature up there may be less than optimum.

Oh, well . . .

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By *wilxj8Man
45 weeks ago

Kingswood BS15 8EQ

You might be lucky and the temp wont drop that much. If you have a couple of sockets put in a fan heater will make a difference. Otherwise the sub will just have to pur up with a bit of cold and like it. I dont mind a bit of cold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

"You might be lucky and the temp wont drop that much. If you have a couple of sockets put in a fan heater will make a difference. Otherwise the sub will just have to pur up with a bit of cold and like it. I dont mind a bit of cold"

I'll just need to wrap him in fur coats

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

Work in progress. New staircase in place above existing staircase. All the wallpaper stripped and ready now for plasterer to come in and fill all the holes, smooth walls etc.

I measured the usable (floored) loft space and it is 4.4 x 6.4 metres.

I looked at buying a roll of linoleum for the loft floor. But I think it would be impossible to get a roll that size up 2 staircases with 180 degrees turns.

Any DIY'ers know what I could do? Buy 2 smaller rolls and join in the middle? Vinyl tiles?

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Bedford

Perfectly level floor tyle it otherwise they will lift best way two rolls with nice neat join not in th middle xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

The mark-up on products branded as BDSM equipment is astonishing.

For a fraction of the price, I can get chains, carabiner and metal hooks from B & Q. And wrists and ankle cuffs with hooks from sports retailers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

A St Andrews cross on-line is about £500.

For about £25, I can achieve the same thing - 4 metal fixings, 4 bits of 1m chain with carabines, and a packet of sound-proofing wall cushion.

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By *eepeter4Man
43 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"A St Andrews cross on-line is about £500.

For about £25, I can achieve the same thing - 4 metal fixings, 4 bits of 1m chain with carabines, and a packet of sound-proofing wall cushion.

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are you going to get Boy George to cut the red ribbon when you have built it

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By *espectdueMan
43 weeks ago

Stratford-Upon-Avon

"The mark-up on products branded as BDSM equipment is astonishing.

For a fraction of the price, I can get chains, carabiner and metal hooks from B & Q. And wrists and ankle cuffs with hooks from sports retailers."

When buying my gear I was frequent visitor to b&q as you can cut the thick chains to whatever size you need, loads of clips and hooks in there too.

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By *oosterladMan
43 weeks ago

ipswich

Screwfix is your friend, they do stainless eyebolts and chain with carabiners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

are you going to get Boy George to cut the red ribbon when you have built it "

I've written to the Ivory Coast gymnastics team to see if they are available for the opening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

When buying my gear I was frequent visitor to b&q as you can cut the thick chains to whatever size you need, loads of clips and hooks in there too. "

What tool do you need to cut a chain?

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By *ndyBristolMan
43 weeks ago

Keynsham

a strong boltcutter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"a strong boltcutter"

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By *ichey6Man
43 weeks ago

aberdeen

"A St Andrews cross on-line is about £500.

For about £25, I can achieve the same thing - 4 metal fixings, 4 bits of 1m chain with carabines, and a packet of sound-proofing wall cushion.

are you going to get Boy George to cut the red ribbon when you have built it "

....

😭

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

I had no idea.

Googled Boy George and BDSM, and it threw up a court report from 2008:

"BOY GEORGE handcuffed a half-naked male es.cort to his bedroom wall, beat him and threatened him with bondage chains, a court heard yesterday.

"And in an echo of the Culture Club star's most famous hit, the prosecutor asked the jury: "Did he really have to hurt him?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"a strong boltcutter"

I'm going to get one and hang it from the wall.

The look on his face when he is chained to the brickwork and he wonders what I'm going to cut with them

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Bedford

St Andrew's cross couple of lengths of 4x2 cut to size join in the middle to make

cross at desired angle few masonry bolts maybe some epoxy resin for extra strength paint to red or black wrist and ankle resistants job done under 50quid xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

I can't do any more downstairs now until the plasterer comes next weekend, so I'm beginning to fit out the loft.

Flooring delivered, light hooks up in rafters. Lots of brackets and chains delivered this week.

15m of steel chain from Amazon for £20.

I'm going to spend this weekend getting it sorted and trying out a few ideas.

I'm sure the plasterer and his colleague are men of the world, if they peek their head up the stairs and discover the purpose of all this renovation

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By *iptoe2Man
43 weeks ago

norwich

Good luck with the building control officer, maybe a little sound insulation might be wise, don't want the nextdoor listening through the fire wall

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

Someone at some point in the past has dislodged a brick in the shared wall and I can see through to the neighbour's loft on the other side.

It's floored, but otherwise undeveloped. The house is empty and for sale.

I get on quite well with the young lassie on the other side, and she knows what I'm up to. She doesn't use her loft as far as I know.

I'm creating my own "cross" against one of the walls, without any wood frame.

I'm fixing steel hooks to the roof trusses and the floor, and will run lengths of chain and carabine through them so that I can secure my subs by the ankles and wrists up against the brickwork (in the shape of a X).

I've bought sound-proofing wall cushion, and will attach this to the wall so their naked body doesn't get all scuffed by the roughness of the brickwork.

I bought a long string of outdoor lights, changed the bulbs from white to red, and these are now hanging from the trusses.

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By *oosterladMan
43 weeks ago

ipswich

If you're hanging a sling check out screwfix for stainless steel chain, cleats and eye bolts for your fixings. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

I've looked at swings or slings, but I've not seen any with eye-hooks that I could use to strap the sub in.

I've get a set of hanging stocks due - a wooden block the clamps the neck and wrists in places and that I can hang from the beams.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"If you're hanging a sling check out screwfix for stainless steel chain, cleats and eye bolts for your fixings. X"

The fixings and fastenings being marketed for DIY gyms at home are ideal. For hanging punchbags and whatnot.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Bedford

Top tip

When laying flooring if your using linoleum and adhesive. Make sure your boiler is switched off.IKnow now a guy who got badly burned and a lot of fire damage was caused to the house he was working in when the boiler ignited and caused the vapour from the adhesive fumes to to ignite he said it was just one big fire ball be careful hun. just saying xxx

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By *ad4older321Man
43 weeks ago

Ards

Christ there are a naughty bunch in here. I need to visit some of these rooms

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Colchester

The house of SJ the madam

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"Think you have to provide a Breakout / Safespace too, as well as all the equipment ."

That'll be my bed at the bottom of the staircase

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"Even if you not into watersports per se subs will almost always pee themselves at some point "

I've bought vinyl flooring. But I may get a bag of large-size nappies from Lidl just in case.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Colchester

"Think you have to provide a Breakout / Safespace too, as well as all the equipment ."

Is that by Law?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"The house of SJ the madam

xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"Sounds great.

We’re just putting a lock on ours to save shocking unexpecting visitors"

I should be grateful that my mum is too old and stiff now to go up stairs when she visits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

I laid the floor today and now have the first item set up and ready to use.

Against the brick of the (cushioned) gable wall, I can now tie you up in chains attached to metal O-hooks.

(Imagine a St Andrews cross without the wood, against a 19th century brick wall)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I tied my first man to the wall tonight.

A friend, I asked him if he would road-test and model it for me.

Gave him a hood, a cling fit top to hide his tattoos (but still see outline of the physique) and a male g-string.

Then I chained him up.

Can you move, love? Is it physically contorting?

No and No.

That's good.

I was tempted to tease him but I could tell he was a model and no more. He's masc top.

Onto to the next contraption now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I shared a photo from last night with a young guy this morning who lives nearby and who I know gets very sub when I feminise him.

10 mins later and he is round. I've got him chained up now in the loft. Naked. Gagged, Collared. Blindfolded.

His cock is stiff and just dribbling cum.

I'm down stairs now having a coffee and a fag, to think of what to do with my human se toy while he contemplates life as a sex sla-ve.

This creation is opening up a whole new dimension for me.

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By *ichey6Man
42 weeks ago

aberdeen

Incorrigible 🤪

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By *ndyBristolMan
42 weeks ago

Keynsham

Hope I get an invitation

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By *astDevonGuyMan
42 weeks ago

East Devon

Anyone remember Jackanory?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

The young sub this morning helped me move a tantric sofa up 2 flights of stairs and into the loft.

I used his body to try out a few positions and get an idea where to screw plates on the floor so that it becomes BDSM fucking sofa.

My only worry is I am on top of the spare bedroom, and there will be an electrical cable running below the floorboards to the light in the bedroom ceiling.

I need to get one of these cable detector things to reduce the risk of electrocuting myself drilling into the floorboards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"Anyone remember Jackanory?"

Ha!

I've added a photo to the profile from last night's shoot.

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By *eepeter4Man
42 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"Anyone remember Jackanory?

Ha!

I've added a photo to the profile from last night's shoot.

"
uncle Knobhead and I believe you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Give me 2 or 3 weeks, Peter, and I can book in the Blue Nun travel club for a visit. UKH driving the bus.

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By *ndyBristolMan
42 weeks ago

Keynsham

Good photo Sara but he looks a little overdressed to me, just my opinion and not a criticism.

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By *einmeMan
42 weeks ago

Comber

"A conversation with a very submissive young man reminded me that I have a floored loft that I have entered once in the 7 years I have stayed here.

Floored and completely empty. Pull-down ladder.

The ladder is no go in a pair of heels so I have been researching the cost of getting a proper staircase from the first floor to the loft.

I am very vulnerable to BDSM, but increasingly I find myself meeting up with young guys who are looked for a dominatrix-type experience.

Not sure how much I am looking or what exactly.

I thought the wonderful people of Fab might be able to give me some inspiration about how to create a play room in the loft.

TIA"

Leave the ladder, just don’t wear heels when using them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"Good photo Sara but he looks a little overdressed to me, just my opinion and not a criticism."

It was just about the only part of the evening where he wasn't naked lol. I just adore his body - a very fit young man.

I needed to protect his identity, and the tattoos on the upper part of his body are really quite distinctive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

That's the 2nd item set up now.

A tantric sofa surrounded by six floor brackets, each with their own length of chain.

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By *eepeter4Man
42 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"That's the 2nd item set up now.

A tantric sofa surrounded by six floor brackets, each with their own length of chain.

"
have you got a Celebrity to open up this playroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I thought we could tie up Uncle Knobhead and take turns whipping him.

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By *igmikeswMan
42 weeks ago

Newton Abbot

Wish I was young man still - I could have put my skills to good use building your domain!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I'm older than you, love

Which probably explains why I got a joiner and electrician in, and am expecting the plasterer soon.

Lololol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I'd like to add a cage, but I am stuck for ideas.

I could create an enclosure at the edges, where the roof comes down to meet the floor, from a metal outdoor dog cage.

Hmmmm, not sure.

Ideally, I'd like a cage maybe 180cm in height, and 50-75cm deep and wide with a lockable door, that I can attach to the brick wall.

The closest thing I have found are large Gabion baskets.

I could buy an outdoor gas cylinder cage but they are a bit on the expensive side.

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By *haneportsMan
42 weeks ago

portsmouth

"I'd like to add a cage, but I am stuck for ideas.

I could create an enclosure at the edges, where the roof comes down to meet the floor, from a metal outdoor dog cage.

Hmmmm, not sure.

Ideally, I'd like a cage maybe 180cm in height, and 50-75cm deep and wide with a lockable door, that I can attach to the brick wall.

The closest thing I have found are large Gabion baskets.

I could buy an outdoor gas cylinder cage but they are a bit on the expensive side.

Have you looked at pet supplies sites for a cage or the free mart sites. No one’s to know you haven’t a big dog.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

"I'd like to add a cage, but I am stuck for ideas.

I could create an enclosure at the edges, where the roof comes down to meet the floor, from a metal outdoor dog cage.

Hmmmm, not sure.

Ideally, I'd like a cage maybe 180cm in height, and 50-75cm deep and wide with a lockable door, that I can attach to the brick wall.

The closest thing I have found are large Gabion baskets.

I could buy an outdoor gas cylinder cage but they are a bit on the expensive side.

Have you looked at pet supplies sites for a cage or the free mart sites. No one’s to know you haven’t a big dog.

I've been looking at pet cages on-line.

I think what I'd really like is to find somewhere that sells or recycles 2nd-hand industrial fittings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I posted a pic of my friend chained up on another platform, and a top who lives nearby showed curiosity. He's been round before and banged me.

Tells me he has a submissive side and is learning how to bottom.

Athletic guy, 5' 11, 30, mixed race.

So I invited him round. Two things, I said.

I want to use your body as a test-crash dummy to try out the tantric sofa chains, and a head-and-wrist stock that arrived today and which is now hanging by chains from the trusses.

Gave him a hood to protect his identity, and a male g-string,. and took some pics. Sofa works very well but stocks need adjustment.

Second part was bringing out his sub side. I removed his hood and g-string, chained him naked to the wall.

Well, I find it very erotic when I have complete control of a sexy body like. I can do whatever I want with him. And I did.

Collared, blindfolded, gagged him. Occasionally let him have a sip of Spanish beer.

He found it very erotic, too - after a while, he came like a train.

So I've left him up there for a while now - chained but minus the blindfold and gag - and come down the stairs for a cigarette and a red wine.

Work in progress . . .

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By *ottom-4nsaMan
42 weeks ago

Poole

Just a reminder, don't forget about the fella in the loft

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Ha! I did tease him about keeping him captive up there all night.

(I've no idea what his reaction was - he was gagged and blindfolded at the time and incapable of saying much)

I was hoping his sack would refill by the time I went up, but it was a forlorn cause, and then he declared he had work to go to

I went to send him the pics after he left - and he's deleted his profile

Poor man, maybe it was all a bit much

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By *waff1102Man
42 weeks ago

King's Lynn, Norfolk

You could have a torture area. Just have a laptop open at fabguys and force your sex partner to setup a meet within an hour or you will spank them hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Lololol

I'd need to free their hands.

I love the thought of a cuckold, bound and gagged, unable to play with themselves, watching me get fucked by some young stud

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"I posted a pic of my friend chained up on another platform, and a top who lives nearby showed curiosity. He's been round before and banged me.

Tells me he has a submissive side and is learning how to bottom.

Athletic guy, 5' 11, 30, mixed race.

So I invited him round. Two things, I said.

I want to use your body as a test-crash dummy to try out the tantric sofa chains, and a head-and-wrist stock that arrived today and which is now hanging by chains from the trusses.

Gave him a hood to protect his identity, and a male g-string,. and took some pics. Sofa works very well but stocks need adjustment.

Second part was bringing out his sub side. I removed his hood and g-string, chained him naked to the wall.

Well, I find it very erotic when I have complete control of a sexy body like. I can do whatever I want with him. And I did.

Collared, blindfolded, gagged him. Occasionally let him have a sip of Spanish beer.

He found it very erotic, too - after a while, he came like a train.

So I've left him up there for a while now - chained but minus the blindfold and gag - and come down the stairs for a cigarette and a red wine.

Work in progress . . .

Glad we're not too far away 😉

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I'll invite you to the official opening

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"I'll invite you to the official opening

Thanks Sara we'd love to I can't wait 😋

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Plasterer due tomorrow.

Then I can get on with painting, wallpaper and new flooring downstairs.

To create my stairway to heaven.

I'm going to lay a red carpet on the stairs to take you to your destiny.

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"Plasterer due tomorrow.

Then I can get on with painting, wallpaper and new flooring downstairs.

To create my stairway to heaven.

I'm going to lay a red carpet on the stairs to take you to your destiny.

Lead me to my destiny 😋 love that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Your purpose in life will be fulfilled - a 24/7 sex sla.ve

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

Sounds like fun to me 😉 and I know you'll get along great with my soft dom

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By *ometimesAnnaTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Worcester

A rimming g seat that can double as an emergency toilet to save you having to go up/downstairs during play. Obviously useful for us too. Pond liner makes a great cheap waterproof base that's easy to wipe clean of lube and any other liquids after play. Can also be fitted over any obstructions on floor etc.

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By *ometimesAnnaTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Worcester

"Thank you.

I've just realised that, in the absence of any heating up, this will ba seasonal area to play.

Unless any of my submissive are into frost play.

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By *ometimesAnnaTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Worcester

"Thank you.

I've just realised that, in the absence of any heating up, this will ba seasonal area to play.

Unless any of my submissive are into frost play.

A small heater plus energy exerted during play will provide sufficient heating. Fit a heater/fan for summer. They are portable and inexpensive.

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By *mooth subMan
42 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

The heater/fan sounds good but for me at least the emergency toilet is unnecessary unless I was kept up there for over a day at a time which does sound tempting to be fair lol

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41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I probably do need to look at heating/cooling options.

The roof space was warmer than the rest of the house during the warm weather, and it wont get any benefit from the house heating during winter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"A rimming g seat that can double as an emergency toilet to save you having to go up/downstairs during play. Obviously useful for us too. Pond liner makes a great cheap waterproof base that's easy to wipe clean of lube and any other liquids after play. Can also be fitted over any obstructions on floor etc. "

He'll be in big trouble if he makes a mess of himself up there.

Naughty boy!

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

He'll be in big trouble if he makes a mess of himself up there.

Naughty boy!

😈😈😈

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

Me ? Never I'm a good boy 😇

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

You'll be even better by the time I'm finished you

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"You'll be even better by the time I'm finished you

Well we'll be over as soon as your ready 😊

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I'll get my skates on then - I hate to see that sexy body perish in the cold of winter

Plasterer came yesterday, so I'm going to leave the redecoration of the staircases until the weekend to give it time to dry out.

My bedroom is the transit space between the 2 staircases, so my job this week is to strip it all down, lay a new floor and put it back together again.

Simples, eh? What could possibly go wrong

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

I hope everything goes smoothly for you and you get it exactly how you want it! And we're not going anywhere so all good there

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

And yeah unfortunately the outdoor meets will need to stop as it gets colder which is a shame as I do enjoy them 😈

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By *ellyxoxoMan
41 weeks ago

Gloucester

"I'll get my skates on then - I hate to see that sexy body perish in the cold of winter

Plasterer came yesterday, so I'm going to leave the redecoration of the staircases until the weekend to give it time to dry out.

My bedroom is the transit space between the 2 staircases, so my job this week is to strip it all down, lay a new floor and put it back together again.

Simples, eh? What could possibly go wrong

lots of sound insulation...

I know a couple of lesbians who converted their brick garage to a dungeon...

after the neighbour enquired about the noisy goings on they doubled the sound proofing !

good luck as it sounds fun ! x

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By *ldmagic4uMan
41 weeks ago

Bristol

"I probably do need to look at heating/cooling options.

The roof space was warmer than the rest of the house during the warm weather, and it wont get any benefit from the house heating during winter."

I wouldn't imagine you will have any problem heating that room 😜 if you have a mini fridge with drinks to cool off would be perfect. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

lots of sound insulation...

I know a couple of lesbians who converted their brick garage to a dungeon...

after the neighbour enquired about the noisy goings on they doubled the sound proofing !

good luck as it sounds fun ! x"

I'm Victorian mid-terrace, and fortunately neither neighbour has converted their loft.

That said, the sound does travel - when I'm in the loft, I can hear every noise from the street, so presumably it works the same in reverse.

I don't want to sound-proof it, because then it would lose the rough appeal of Victorian brickwork etc

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

I'd be the same if I had somewhere to do it, it'd be kept raw, minimalist so brick work and wooden beams exposed but a dungeon does sound amazing! 😋

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By *enderyn69TV/TS
41 weeks ago

Swansea

One solution to the noise issue would be to have a nice selection of gags at hand…

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By *mooth subMan
41 weeks ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"One solution to the noise issue would be to have a nice selection of gags at hand…"

Yeah that and maybe a bit of music to drown out any loud moans or whipping sounds 😬

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Yes, gags.

I could go to BHF electrical and see if they have a little sound system.

Or I might have a think about how to use the house wifi to play music from the TV/sound system on the ground floor.

I'd just need some sort of speaker on the same wavelength, so to speak.

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By *om Top and SubMan
41 weeks ago

St Austell

Maybe just a Bluetooth speaker playing music from your phone as long as the speaker and phone are fully charged no need for electrics. I can bring along my speaker when we visit.

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By *etasubTV/TS
41 weeks ago

west of Newcastle

Love to try your dungeon if I ever get to Bristol. Happy memories of after8 💋 👅 ❤️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Maybe just a Bluetooth speaker playing music from your phone as long as the speaker and phone are fully charged no need for electrics. I can bring along my speaker when we visit. "

I was worried someone would start talking about set-ups that bamboozle me

I did once have a Bose speaker that played super tunes from Spotify (or was it Apple) on a little MacBook Air.

But I seem to have lost all that, and I don't know how to get it back.

I'm a bit allergic to tech stuff

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By *om Top and SubMan
41 weeks ago

St Austell

Nah. Just buy a Bluetooth speaker. Pair it with your phone your done simple. Have some great club music playing while I am using my sub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Nah. Just buy a Bluetooth speaker. Pair it with your phone your done simple. "

I may need to get a man in to show me how

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By *ichey6Man
41 weeks ago

aberdeen

Did Big Les leave a review?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Did Big Les leave a review?

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By *ichey6Man
41 weeks ago

aberdeen

Haha

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By *om Top and SubMan
41 weeks ago

St Austell

"Nah. Just buy a Bluetooth speaker. Pair it with your phone your done simple.

I may need to get a man in to show me how

I meant to say when we are using my sub of course 🤣🤣 looking forward to it x

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By *avidmelissaMan
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Empty bathtub for watersports

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I realised, in conversation with a young sub, that I do not have a whip. Super range available on Amazon for just a few £s

Another 15m of chain has arrived, too. A spreader bar capable of being raised and lowered from the roof is in order.

If I get a cage, I'd like one I could raise and lower, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

That's the play room pretty much finished.

I've installed 3 separate contraptions:

- Chained to the wall, against an invisible cross

- Tantric sofa, with six floor hooks and chains

- A set of head-and-wrist stocks, adjustable in height and hanging from chains, with a chain running across the floor to hook your ankles.

There's another flat couch up there still undeveloped. I'm thinking about chains from the roof, so your wrists and ankles (in a spreader bar) can be lifted and lowered.

A need a victim - sorry, a volunteer - to lend me their body so I can test what might work.

Just got the access route to finish off now - paint, paper and carpet 2 staircases.

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By *ndyBristolMan
41 weeks ago

Keynsham

Well done, I am sure your new playroom will be tested out soon. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I'm OK at painting but I'm sceptical about my wallpaper skills

I did up the bedroom while I was waiting for plaster to dry. Started to lay laminate floor, gave up and got a professional in to do it.

I've bought self-adhesive vinyl brick-effect wallpaper. I'm hoping it goes up easier than paper-and-paste.

I remember having a total tantrum when I last tried to wallpaper 30 years ago

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